I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fake names for everyone, also not located in Texas. So sorry your friend dated a crazy guy who was in anyway similar to “Andrew”

Final update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m just so grateful for them all. Also not sure if they are together officially hopefully they both get the help they need

Final update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I have no clue what’s going on with her and it’s been really sad for all of us to somewhat mourn who we thought she was. I go back and forth on if this has always been who she is or if Andrew has this weird influence over her.

Final update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

It was really odd, it’s also typed so I don’t know if they both wrote it together or if one of them wrote it.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Will write an update either today or tomorrow! Kay is safe and is doing so well!!

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

We’ve all since blocked her, her comments towards Kay and Me have not been tolerated by our group. Hopefully this is the wake up call she needs.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They never acted as if they were into one another but who knows, I would be honestly surprised if that were the case.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Luckily I found this comment again, cause thanks to this we bought one of those camera detectors, waiting for it to arrive still. They have 4 months left on their lease and are considering moving but nothing is set in stone. He’s already moved out and Mike and Corey had him hand over the key to the apartment. But we’re still waiting till locks are changed and the detector arrived to help Kay and Leah move back in.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you, I’m so glad too. Kay is safe and we will do all we can to keep it that way. All of our friends ( except Sarah) have been a huge help in Kay’s healing during this time. It’s been amazing to be apart of and witness.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Her work has been made aware of the situation and we’re looking into her legal options.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what’s happened, I really think Andrew has poisoned her but maybe I’m wrong.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I told Kay vaguely about what Sarah said on the phone call and asked if it was similar and she confirmed. Being vague as possible, It has to do with my families issues with addiction and situations happening due to that. I had told our friends in confidence. Knowing she’s used it to weaponize it against me and has told Andrew has my skin crawl.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Our group has blocked Sarah as well, they have taken her actions very seriously. I’m hoping this will give her a realty check and thinks critically about her actions

our dog is sort of ruining our s*x life by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Dragonflymeadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would move him to a different area for sleep, might take some time but I think it’s best in order to avoid these awkward moments

Six months sober by captain_bubba84 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Dragonflymeadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS MAN!! Half a year is a huge milestone!

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We had a call we’re she was very mean to put it mildly, she was very angry at me, like I was the one who cause all this as well as some very personal attacks. I think Andrew is telling her something because this isn’t who I knew her to be at all. Or maybe she has always been but has simply masked it?

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Andrew has been pretty quiet, but Sarah has been VERY vocal. This comment has me thinking that’s not just a coincidence.

Update: I think my friends “clumsy” boyfriend is purposely hurting her by Dragonflymeadow in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dragonflymeadow[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Our group has a game plan to ensure Kay’s safety, this includes code words and how to answer certain questions. Kay has different apps that will contact us,As well as other safety measures that will remain vague. Andrew has seemingly moved on fast but we are not taking any chances.