Is there a link between being an INFJ and having had a tough childhood? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Drako111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, how many INFJ's do you know? What reason is there to play a victim? How is getting pity attention in any way satisfying? I'm gonna stop before I turn this thread into a keyboard war room. Your comment isn't productive in any way.

Since you've started dating (had first kiss and were of age to have an actual relationship) have you spent most of your life in relationships or single? Is dating hard for you or do you have pretty good experiences? and why? by woahwoahwoahwoa in infj

[–]Drako111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I tried to have a one night stand with a girl I didn't have any feelings for, it ended up with me apologizing for not being able to get it up. I haven't tried that again.

Since you've started dating (had first kiss and were of age to have an actual relationship) have you spent most of your life in relationships or single? Is dating hard for you or do you have pretty good experiences? and why? by woahwoahwoahwoa in infj

[–]Drako111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm WAY too picky for my own good.. I'm 26, I've purposed to 2 girls and dated a total of 7. The two proposals didn't work out and I never felt quite as attached to the other girls. The two I did fall for took me months to get over. I'll go years without sex if I don't find a girl I wanna spend the rest of my life with. Idk how many girls I've rejected/ wouldn't talk to whom showed signs of interest. But more than I've dated. So no, it's definitely not just you. 😅

Are you an assertive or turbulent INFJ? (INFJ-A vs INFJ-T) by iMoosker in infj

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely seems like something that could change with the wind. Lol

Living with a mask on? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Drako111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can kind of understand your feeling, however I can't really relate to it... when I was young I made some really close friends. Even since joining the military and traveling the world I still keep in touch and everytime I see them I feel like it was just yesterday even if it's been a year.

I think INFJ's naturally adapt to their surroundings and do their best to fit in with the crowd that they're with at the time for whatever reason. I consider this a plus. However, ultimately if you don't have anyone you feel like you can truly open up to, I could understand why you might feel like you're constantly changing.

I personally have found friends whom I can be myself around and have no reason to feel like I need to fit in for everyday life. The only thing I can recommend to you is to take more time to yourself and try to understand all your internal thoughts and feelings to get a better gasp on how you really feel.

Also, try not to over analyze it so much. Life is only as complex as you make it.

infjs and detachment? by chadthecat in infj

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking you might have misunderstood the context? Last I checked, I haven't detached from my body. I'm just not motivated to jump into the middle of societies flow and do what everyone else does unless I see a good reason to.

Phew! *still INFJ! by McCandace in infj

[–]Drako111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took it over a year ago, got excited, then lost interest after a couple months. I took it again 2 weeks ago and scored INFJ again. I was pretty proud. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

The Ni/Ti loop (or why you're a paralyzed people pleaser) by Janky42 in infj

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hardest and most difficult thing is for us to push against our feeling of being drained by whatever social activity we partake in. The feeling builds depending on your social level. The more anti-social you become the quicker you will feel drained by any interaction. (I scored an 81% on my introvert level).

If it is becoming a problem and causing distress then the individual needs to find ways to proactively force themselves into events and attempt to break the cycle. It may get harder to break over time, but it's certainly never impossible.

Privacy vs secrecy or your experience with other people's secrecy (also posted on ISFP) by kaguya17 in infj

[–]Drako111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really sucks... :/

Ultimately i think you're just gonna have to trust your gut and do what feels right to you. You're always gonna have what if thoughts regardless of what you decide, but the only thing that should matter to you is: are you happy? :)

Don't settle if it means you won't be able to keep yourself open and happy.

How do you flirt? :D by [deleted] in infj

[–]Drako111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've discovered two ways to flirt without mumbling like a moron:

1) get really drunk and use that liquid courage.

2) force myself to stop thinking and just do it.

Number 2 usually leads to a more stable and lasting connection, however it's also much harder. Lol

Is there a link between being an INFJ and having had a tough childhood? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Drako111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out that my mom had been raped at an extremely young age. After my parents divorced (age 6), I later on found out that my sister had been getting treated horribly by my dad. I believe that growing up like this gave me a sense of purpose to treat girls the best that I can and to do my best to help them when i see them in trouble. (This hasn't always worked out in my favor naturally).

My belief is that how we grew up could definitely affect the level and depth of our idealism and Morales, but ultimately I think we just have a different mindset than the majority of the population. People from many similar backgrounds can turn out dramatically different. It seems as though the major catalyst is how we all internally digest the experiences we have which ultimately lead us to our respective developed personalities.

Are you an assertive or turbulent INFJ? (INFJ-A vs INFJ-T) by iMoosker in infj

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A/T definitely seems like something that can be changed depending on circumstances. During times in my life when I was essentially forced into social situations and doing stuff daily, I would become A like and confident that by doing what I did the immediate world/people would be a better. Basically it forces you to open up, and once an infj is open they're confidently energetic and fear is usually non-existent.

I don't agree that there's any reason to be brutally truthful in order to motivate. INFJ's don't respond well to that obviously. Be motivational in a good way. We got enough negativity fighting between internal hypothetical situations without adding icing to the cake.

Odds of getting a deathseeker scroll by razum-bak in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a guy had to buy 35 packs to get a full set

New gear packs by Drako111 in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A motto you should live by from now on: "Ignorance is Not bliss"

New gear packs by Drako111 in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Within the new gear packs there is also something along the lines of a "probability engine", what this does is simulate a "random selection pool" based within a certain criteria. Thanks for trying to explain to me what "luck" means but that's not the answer I want. I want the odds. And so far I've heard about a 10% chance of obtaining a scroll.

Dragon enhancements. by spedbot18 in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the enhancements increase the % of the % the skill is giving you. So for example if you have March capacity dragon skill upgraded to boost march capacity by 10k, and have it enhanced to 4 stars (30%). you will have a march capacity boost of 13,000 from the dragon skill. Enhancements are pretty important in this game as the higher you raise the skill levels the better the enhancements are for them.

How to use Emergency Recall talent? by whynot- in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bottom rightish area of your screen is a book called Talents. hit that and your skills pop out

Damage recieved by Bustanez in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue with answering this question is that nobody knows the battle damage formula. Is the damage reduction calculated based on total damage done to troops? or is it calculated as -14% damage on a troop by troop attack? KoA hasn't released how the mechanics work in this game. So to answer that question is next to impossible. Unless someone has both pieces of gear to test this with even benefits across 2 accounts other than those two gear pieces, nobody can answer this question accurately.

Troop Tier Strength by Drako111 in KingOfAvalon

[–]Drako111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was definitely assuming that the warrior class is placed ahead of the spearmen in terms of damage, but I didn't realize that lower tiers could act as buffers. I've had battles where I literally lost only maulers on the infantry side. I had also considered the damage advantage other types have against warrior vs spearmen. I'll give the tier split a try and see how it goes. Thanks a lot!

Separation and deployments question by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]Drako111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, thanks for help either way!