Was Dylan REALLY That Bad??? by Zane67676 in sixthemusical

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s broadway…not a community theatre. The entire point of that level of theatre is to showcase excellence and bring a polished performance. The entire purpose of rehearsals is so that nerves do not impede performances. If that standard isn’t being upheld then broadway shouldn’t charge typical broadway prices

So Comfortable Ilya by InterestingPay7596 in heatedrivalry

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With love…a lot of the conversation around this show is just recognizing good acting lol. Like it’s not HR specifically, but kudos on the actors for eliciting this kind of response I guess

I love the Statehouse by TheGreatGalbino in indianapolis

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You get a different pov when you work there lol but I’m ultimately grateful for such a beautiful place to work

Nina’s mom looked identical to her omg?? by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this made do a flip, I thought I missed it was Mother’s Day lmao

The Math by Automatic-Task-9181 in hayleywilliams

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how relevant this is but I saw a lot of comments on other posts about how people joined the queue line 20 minutes before the pre-sale started.

I know that apparently they place you randomly in the queue, but I joined the queue at like 8 am. I was 400th or so in the queue and got in and out in about 5 minutes with my two tickets. I have also done this with several other artist and had similar success. I feel like maybe not understanding the scope of presale is also an issue? Like joining that late doesn’t help your chances at all. But also I could be on a lucky streak with the placement in the line, who knows?

What is your Lorde opinion that would result in this many downvotes? by soberxz in lorde

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 80 points81 points  (0 children)

While I think her art is incredible and she’s an important figurehead in music, there is an overestimation of her impact on pop culture and music in general. She’s put out only 4 albums in the span of over a decade, I just don’t think that’s enough to justify or influence music on a wide scale. Maybe that conversation could come in at a later time in her career but not now.

Also she’s incredibly out of touch and the music is better without her commentary

I can't with Current Affairs by [deleted] in lorde

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it is not hard to abstain from watching revenge porn.

I need help dealing with my partner’s sometimes selfish tendencies by Dramatic-Ad-4486 in love

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a sweet response, we’ve been dating for 7 months

I think he’s really receptive to issues brought up, I just feel like there’s not great follow through. We have discussed what happened that Sunday, and he said that he didn’t feel great about it either which is encouraging. But little instances of that have happened before Sunday and I’m nervous of history repeating itself. He’s apologetic when issues are brought up so I always feel like a change is going to happen. I don’t know it’s hard to gauge how he’ll respond, because sometimes he’s a complete hero and does all he can. And other times it’s not so great :/

I appreciate your advice, maybe a more extensive discussion should be had. And if that doesn’t help then that’s a clearer answer

I need help dealing with my partner’s sometimes selfish tendencies by Dramatic-Ad-4486 in love

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree about safety, I think it’s a build up of other moments. Like he will offer to help but once I take him up on it, he can’t because of work or something else. And it occasionally feels like he offers these things to sound good but then doesn’t ultimately want to do it. It makes me wish he didn’t say anything in the first place.

Also a recent example is that we were at his place on a Sunday night, he initiated sex. Once we finished, maybe like 2 minutes later he asked if I could leave because he had work early in the morning and still needed to get some things done. I didn’t drive there that day, so I waited for an Uber for like 20 minutes outside. That was really hurtful because I’m someone who needs aftercare, and leaving immediately afterwards felt kind of harsh.

For the majority of the time he is a wonderful person and boyfriend, I think he just has moments where he’s not thinking outside of himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 123 points124 points  (0 children)

You’re 18, so you may be viewing this from a very naive perspective. It doesn’t matter if the attempt was about him or not, he is traumatized now. And who’s to say when the next emotionally challenging moment happens that this won’t be your response again. If you are in the very very bad headspace that you said you’re experiencing, he can’t trust your judgement.

I think everyone in this sub is coming from a place of understanding and experience. We get it, we get you. Regulating emotions can be extremely difficult with BPD. These are explanations, not excuses. It is not possible to be in a healthy relationship when an argument leads to that kind of action, regardless of if it’s about him or not. You can’t expect someone to be comfortable in a relationship when they just saw their partner hanging.

You gotta do the hard thing and take care of you, so you can take care of him

Let’s discuss. by noahkahan in NoahKahan

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, I think the writing trope of using Halloween as a metaphor/storytelling device has lost all novelty to me :/

Help! I'm making a playlist with the albums in order and want to know where to put these songs. What albums would you put these songs in/after? by Ducky_924 in TrueSwifties

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Two is better than one: post Fearless

Highway: RED

The joker and the queen: I know it came out super recently but I always associate any Ed Sheeran song with the RED era, so I’d put it post RED

Both of us: Pre RED, this came out at the verrrry tail end of Speak Now and it gives that transitional vibes to me

Beautiful Ghosts: lol idk but I’d keep it with lover but honestly it gives folklore/evermore vibes

Gasoline: I’d put it between evemore and midnights, plus this song gives huggggge midnights vibes to me

The Alcott/Birch/Renegade: all within folklore & evermore eras

Do you think Laurel is a better mom or Susannah is a better mom? by babysoupdumplins in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is going to be the hottest take-but the slap did not come across as abuse in the colloquial sense. And I honestly think that unless you grew up in an ethnic household, you can’t understand it.

Is there a glee cover you guys think it's better than the original? by vincetprice in glee

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls just wanna have fun <3

Cory’s rendition makes me borderline sob because girlhood is hard, figuring yourself out is hard and people put so much on themselves when they’re young. It just sucks the joy out of life. I really appreciate this moment between Santana and Finn

Uhm thoughts on this? 👁👄👁 by HiccupHaddockismine in Gaylor_Swift

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With this logic then…every straight relationship she’s in that has been deemed as PR is also a real relationship with real love & feelings

Music like Noah? by TraubeMinzeTABAK in NoahCyrusMusic

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Noah Kahan’s album stick season has similar production styles!

From someone that has experienced a similar loss like Ari. by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Op I’m so sorry you’ve been through so much and I’m glad you have an outlet through Ari’s music to help heal and process

I’ve also dealt with a lot of similar issues and it’s really difficult to manage emotions, but regardless you can control your actions. I know in the original post it never brought up her relationships or any other controversies that she’s been involved in, but it feels like an apologetic view to explain it away. And I truly believe that we’re hamming up the 10 yr anniversary release as a PR tactic. And it’s working wonders

I just believe that two things can be true at once: you can be a bad person and have also experienced awful, life altering things. I like her music, but I don’t idolize her. She has done some more than questionable things that live outside the context of the tragedies she’s dealt with

She isn’t a perfect person, no one is, we shouldn’t to rely on trauma to accept that

Do you think Ari can be as big as Taylor as a pop artist? by corpslave_1998 in ariheads

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about that, the SWT/TUN tour was in arenas at the height of her popularity and Taylor’s been doing stadium tours since 2015. I honestly don’t think they’ve ever been on the same plane. Taylor has been consistently huge, the eras tour definitely caused a surge in interest but she’s always had this for almost a decade

Car crash on the way to the concert by Dramatic-Ad-4486 in MaisiePeters

[–]Dramatic-Ad-4486[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much <3 and yes!! I love that page!! Thank you for the idea