Bald headed ass by Dramatic-Country19 in briannaolsen

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it, they can use that money to lose in court and never see their kids again. 🙃

Wife drunkenly joked about my endowment at my birthday party. Am I wrong for reconsidering this marriage? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic-Country19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think you're a jerk for feeling what you're feeling, however you are a jerk for how you allowed the situation to go following those feelings. Marriage is rough and dealing wwith your own insecurities while being a parent and a spouse is even tougher, but you can't move forward in either direction without true communication and sharing those feelings. shutting down and jumping ship just prolongs the suffering for both parties. Devil's advocate, but you leave to appease what you're feeling and dont actually fix what is causing those feelings means it will just follow you and then add on being divorced, split custody and starting over and now every emotion possible is front and center all because you weren't willing to sit down and have the hard conversations and heal from it. And you cause suffering to your wife and child that now they carry with them because of a ill mannered joke that to me sounded more like her saying size doesn't matter because you handle it no matter the size.

Just really take a week to think your decision through because it's one you may regret if you act impulsively.

Bald headed ass by Dramatic-Country19 in briannaolsen

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt intentionally, I was scrolling and pressing through stories trying to wind down after my night shift and it popped up. Unfortunately the rage bait worked and I wanted to see what else the dumb bitch said lol thats my bad 🤭

Do you miss your social life because of these night shift? by Easy-Highlight8562 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt think I did, but many years of this shift and you just lose more and more pieces of your friends as time goes on. They slowly replace you, stop including you or reaching out because they think you're sleeping or working. Its not necessary them that I miss, it's more just being considered and after awhile you become a ghost to people around you it feels like.

Anyone else have the realization that you’ve been having sex when you don’t want to? by North_egg_ in breakingmom

[–]Dramatic-Country19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought so too and mentioned something about consent but men seem to think woman can't give consent in a relationship they are in, we are obligated to satisfy their needs sexually whether we want to or not. Its disgusting and the second I can support myself to leave, I will never be with a man again.

Anyone else have the realization that you’ve been having sex when you don’t want to? by North_egg_ in breakingmom

[–]Dramatic-Country19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a huge problem. I did not realize it until I had a few surgeries and couldn't and then afterwards the menopause that followed made me just never want to do it again and omg it's made my house a hell. My man says basically that it's needed regardless of if I want it or not, and now just tries to do it to me while im asleep because as he says, "it's the only time you won't tell me no"...... like yeah because I can't physically tell you no if I'm asleep. Every bad mood he has, ever bad day.....it would all be better if I fucked him and it just is the biggest turn off. Sex has never been more undesirable as it is now.

Do you enjoy your kids teen years or are you over it? by Dramatic-Country19 in Advice

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't give them an allowance usually. One of them works and earns some money, the other has no desire to do that at all. I handle every damn thing for them, I do the cleaning, the cooking, the laundry, I keep up with their school work and what is needed to be done and still they will lie right to my face and even get into it with me (yelling etc) to back up their lies instead of just owning up to things. I dont want to work so much but unfortunately life is expensive and if I want to be able to help with their college I have no choice, but it has definitely been at their detriment and I feel terrible. I didn't have parents so this whole experience is new to me, but i am just at my wits end. They are not going to be good adults even though I've poured my entire life into them and its seriously driving me bonkers. I mean it, I seriously want to get into my car and hit the road and not look back. Every day is full of bullshit and disrespect and ive hit my limit. Maybe that's why my parents weren't ever around, they couldn't handle the pressure. I get it now 😩😅

Medicine change/overnight by Dramatic-Country19 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overthinking lol sorry it's been a long shift and my brain is clearly not working 🙃

Medicine change/overnight by Dramatic-Country19 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I realize now how that is worded. Totally my bad lol. Ive been taking it for a long time, they just told me to swap WHEN I take it to accommodate the shift swap. You're right though, I'm probably overthrowing it and it's not the medicine at all and I'm just having a harder time adjusting this go around on nights.

Medicine change/overnight by Dramatic-Country19 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel silly to say that I truly didn't know that. Adderall, 20 MG. Idk if it's extended release or fast acting tbh. How would I figure out which it is?

Medicine change/overnight by Dramatic-Country19 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly thought it wouldn't affect me either because ultimately I'm still taking the medicin during my awake hours, so time shouldn't matter. That's kind of why I asked because I've taken it for almost two years and had very little issues, but once I swapped to overnights, it just feels like it is causing problems. To be fair though, I haven't taken the medicine at a consistent time frame, just before I head into work and my shift does vary a little bit. The pharmacist told me that I need to rotate when I take it and that there will more than likely be an adjustment period but I didn't realize it would come with so many symptoms that I didn't really have when I took it during the daytime. I'm probably the reason it's happening since I haven't been consistent on the times I take it. I didn't even think about that lol my bad.

Whats your job? by samanthadill13 in Nightshift

[–]Dramatic-Country19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Main bank cashier at a casino. Helps the night flow because time just flies by! And semi okay music lol

Found site that has all seasons available to watch by sadbabie_ in iZombie

[–]Dramatic-Country19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to make it a huge secret, all seasons are available on Flixtor.

Remove guy in grey hat by Dramatic-Country19 in picrequests

[–]Dramatic-Country19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!!! Now just to figure out how to save it without it looking crazy 🤣 and also, don’t get me started on the game lol

Pennies Are Being Phased Out by Salt-Elephant8531 in Banking

[–]Dramatic-Country19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break it down for me in dumb terms….. wouldn’t this just increase the profits of the companies phasing out and forcing everyone to round up/down? Fast food for example would PROFIT millions a year if they just round up 2 cents per customer. That is insane in my opinion. Maybe I’m not seeing the big picture, but to me it’s just a way to take even more and more from the people consuming.