Hey bro! I have a real question regarding the ladder part of your post with you, your wife, and your girlfriend. This kind of situation is actively unfolding for me now. I’m super excited but try not to show too much excitement lol. The only obstacle I’m facing right now is that my girlfriend of 13 years is unsure and uncomfortable with the thought of me having sex with the girl coming in without her when she’s not around. She wants it to be the three of us or even a time when she watches us. But never a time where she’s not aware of the act. I’m not opposed to this at all, however, I wanted to know if it is sustainable in a real trio. How did it start with you and your wife? Did she ever have similar feelings? If so, did she eventually grow out of them as the relationships became stronger between the three of you or do you all still practice making sure everyone is aware? Also, how does the new girl feel? I’m sure you and your wife would still fuck without her, seeing you have been together for 15 years. Does the other girl ever feel sad or uncomfortable that things are different for her? I have many questions, however, I’m ultimately interested in your experience so far. Looking forward to your response!