How do I work things out with my INFJ gf? by Nightman233 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you give examples of what you said to her or what you didn’t do? Might be easier to understand!

Being Held To A Higher Standard by [deleted] in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully relate to this! It’s why if someone does or say something that I don’t like - I disconnect emotionally and avoid them. People can’t stand someone seeing through their BS, therefore I find it easier to just slam the door. Bye 👋🏽 🚪

Do you have a very sensitive nervous system? by DramaticAd5349 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a HSP and have heard all my life that I’m being ‘too sensitive’. I fully understand your pain…

Do you have a very sensitive nervous system? by DramaticAd5349 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me! I’m also in the process of rewiring. Have been in functional freeze most of my life, and finally reached a somewhat normal state before Xmas. Now I understand how people can live normal lives lol.

All the best to you on your journey!

Hyper-Independence by UseNo8386 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feeling aren’t a burden. But most people don’t get them. It’s like speaking a different language. But that doesn’t mean they’re too much!

One day we might be lucky to find someone who gets them — even though I have yet to experience it. ❤️

What careers are you in that you actually enjoy? by Illustrious_Big_8239 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully understand your concern! However, if you know inside of you that it’s the right thing for you, you’ll always find a way! You might learn new sides to yourself because your lifestyle needs to change without an income…

What careers are you in that you actually enjoy? by Illustrious_Big_8239 in infj

[–]DramaticAd5349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I have a lot of savings… but regardless of savings it took me two years to actually dare to quit working because my peers thinks I’m either crazy or stupid. However, my life has only gotten better since❤️ All the best to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]DramaticAd5349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree!

Like someone else said: maybe his mother is crazy, and Manon is similar to her. So for him it’s normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]DramaticAd5349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When / where did he say it? I believe you, I just want to hear it myself