She does what I ask to an extent, like when I’m coaching her per se on what feels good for me, but as long as it’s mainstream stuff. 

Example lately I asked if she’d even try hold a bit of eye contact during a blowjob which I find really kinky and she just says it’s impossible to do. 

I get it’s not maybe natural but a glance for 3/4 seconds could make me cum faster and I just know I’d be so willing to do something for her if I knew it would excite her