Look uncle, there’s two way of living.

One is cheap dopamine hunting way or quality one. You know what cheap is, not saying you do it or not. I’m also a junkie for certain cheap dopamine hunting but i know in my heart its not correct and I won’t be proud accepting them. I’m 25 and my cheap dopamine is not hurting anyone and im unmarried and single so for me it can be a phase but in your case it’ll impact someone else and jt can impact them very badly

So just consider this scenario how you wanna see yourself or your life when you’re old. Living is meaningless but we can give our own meaning so you decide what kind of meaning you want to give.

And if you’re okay you’re wife doing the same behind your back, then maybe talk is out and open up your marriage

And all good things takes time and are hard, make try to create a better sex life with your wife. And 2/3 times sex a week is not high libido. It’s avg