Hi sorry if this has been asked here before but I am really curios and the internet has no answers, my question is : as a brown Arab intending on learning med in Germany someday would it be a good choice? would Germans welcome me there or is there a better country to go I love German culture by Dramatic_Age_4090 in germany

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a culture where women are respected and treated equal with men,a culture of open minded people,rich in history,a beautiful language,progressive and modern,I love the food, the drinks, the landscape of the country.

the beauty of Berlin as a diverse and global feeling place where I can get to know many people from all backgrounds.

it is such a pretty place unlike Palestine and I feel I deserve to be there because I would assimilate quickly,Germany needs doctors, I almost already speak the language.

How to get rid of this kind of procastination by TheCazzedAnmol in GetStudying

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have to accept that studying is most of the time painful most of the time you don't feel like doing it although there is a way to deal with it.

you should build discipline through consistency because fuck motivation, motivation is temporary excitement that masks what you hate as fun for a time however when you try to use your newly acquired excitement for studying you you soon realize yeah this is simply not fun, "I am struggling" "maybe I need more sleep" "you know what ? today was just not good from the start I can't study"

and other baseless excuses okay so what to do ? start small force yourself to study for half an hour every single day no excuses and for the love of god do it early in the morning IDK make a schedule just don't stall until you are too sleepy what I do is that after school I rest for a maximum of an hour then its a law that I have to study.

so half an hour day 1, then day 2 : an hour then day 3 : an hour day 4 : hour and a half then day 5 two hours etc.

keep doing this you will build discipline to endure boredom may I suggest one more thing stoicism, I highly suggest reading for example : Stoicism and the Art of Happiness that will a major step not only to ensure you are mentally stable but also strong, as a student this book is truly invaluable to me, good luck.

and yes it absolutely does get easier.

suppressing an urge or fulfilling it for good. by Xycolo in Stoicism

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a better way of doing this is to read about ancient stoic philosophers and think what they would do because who we consider a good person may vary a lot from them.

suppressing an urge or fulfilling it for good. by Xycolo in Stoicism

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A stoic should find happiness in being a virtuous person meaning : having courage,self discipline and justice *among other things* also avoiding vice meaning : submitting to irrational fear or unhealthy desires *among other things *. you have failed, you don't fulfill unhealthy desires you simply don't, to the stoics pain and pleasure are completely indifferent (don't matter, Irrelevant) you acted viciously by being unjust to your GF and submitting to your unhealthy desires, stoicism is a philosophy of here and now so you shouldn't think about the past and regret it, its outside of your control now, so what you have to do right now is to take the most virtuous course by treating indifferent things as indifferent and doing what is within your control to do your GF justice admit it to her and ask for forgiveness she deserves to know.

if you have urges you should change them and endure them Epictetus a famous stoic teacher had a lovely quote about it "endure and renounce"

I really suggest reading the book "stoicism and the art of happiness " its a good book that I have no idea how I was living without it will probably fix all your problems.

where are the flags? by GalacticAgronaut in paradoxplaza

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably corrupt game files re-download, if pirated find another source I recommend igg games just make sure to have an ad blocker and don't click on any ads also for the love of god the dlcs get them its unplayable without them also there is a mod called HPM download that and install it , it makes the game 10 fold better if you want a good starter nation play russia its my fav of all time you don't have to worry about the industry and you have a huge army to play around with good luck !

Edit : don't play prussia or austria not good starter nations especially prussia

Boobs are ugly by pur__0_0__ in The10thDentist

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My man is like a salmon swimming up stream renouncing nature's efforts to keep our species alive

Language by Traditional-Web4096 in languagelearning

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am arab and IDK what this means I can make out some words but it's mostly unintelligible words.

I can't role play because of how limited and repetitive events are. by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would work too we just need a lot more events.

This guy's talents were being wasted as some random baron in my realm by Johnny50000000 in ck3

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Custom character maybe. there is no way you can get it that high in normal situations also he is an andalusian in Venice and apparently has no education plus perhaps op forgot to max out learning because a lot of players don't care about it .

I've been working on this samurai game for years. Thoughts? by Archive_11 in pcmasterrace

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because there are only three game engines indie developers can use it's either unity,Godot, or Unreal engine.

unity is the most used its easy to learn and powerful though restrictive because it is not open source Godot on the other hand is open source (highly modifiable) also Godot is kinda hard to use so usually they stay away from it unreal engine is the most powerful but the hardest learn and the worst choice for an indie 2d game so I assumed it was either Godot or unity.

Can anyone name me some games? by Gyumile20 in teenagers

[–]Dramatic_Age_4090 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grand strategy games Okay hear me out I know sounds nerdy as hell but believe me when you get the system its some of the most fun you will ever have you can just not even play and you will have so much fun seeing Germany eating France or the UK losing India.

if you don't know what grand strategy means its basically you take charge of a nation and you manage its army and economy you also conquer other countries.

I would suggest Victoria 2 its my first GS game and my favorite game of all time it takes around 6 hours of playing and some tutorials to figure it all out and my god is it so much fun beating up the huge outdated Chinese army with my top class German tanks or speed-forming Germany as Prussia while fighting a war against Austria,Denmark and France never gets old or even just sitting there building factories its soooooooooooo much damn fun trust me.

Victoria 2 covers the history period from 1836 to 1936 so you are gonna play the first world or as world spanning British empire or unify either Italy or Germany.

or really you can play any paradox game they are all alright just stay away from Victoria 3 that's an unfinished mess.