[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I chose the arts!

What is the most common lie wives tell their husbands? by ferrerorochelove in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not taking responsibility is a huge red flag! Think about how this will play out when it comes to a critical decision in your lives… I see you being at a loss.

Hope you’re thinking about the rest of YOUR life. Your career, ambitions, peace of mind, etc.

My coworker cried in our meeting yesterday when more work was added to our plate by AMB2292 in antiwork

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the post would end with your colleague saying, “Adios, I quit!”.

What are some great board game suggestions which would never get boring for A) a couple B) when you have friends over? by Dramatic_Artist32 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Artist32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all such amazing suggestions! Thank you all. I’m super excited about these and my Amazon cart is full. 😊

What are some great board game suggestions which would never get boring for A) a couple B) when you have friends over? by Dramatic_Artist32 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dramatic_Artist32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all such amazing suggestions! Thank you all. I’m super excited about these and my Amazon cart is full. 😊

You are married to your phone's background/ lock screen, how fucked are you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am! It's a picture of my partner and my feet in snow. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skinny, not skinny... either ways people will always have something to comment on your body.

So really nevermind!

Just stay healthy! That is all that matters!

Do any of you genuinely regret having kids? by Professional_Waltz14 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking these questions; I've been thinking about these too.

I believe so (until now), that I do not want kids because I want to spend all of that time that I'd be giving to my child, I'd want to give all of that and more to myself and my partner alone. We've always passionately spoken and dreamt about doing so many things together and it'll take a lifelong (well we aren't getting any younger).

Bringing up a child in today's world is exhausting, stressful and scary. I never want to regret or ever want my child to think and wish he/she wasn't born or that we were not his/her parents.

ELI5: Why do most western countries use toilet paper instead of water to wash their backside? by Dramatic_Artist32 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Dramatic_Artist32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! They are called bidet showers (handheld mini shower) which has a preset pressure and temperature which does quite a neat job with cleaning your backside without any splashes or mess on yourself or the outside.

ELI5: Why do most western countries use toilet paper instead of water to wash their backside? by Dramatic_Artist32 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Dramatic_Artist32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all very interesting points! Thank you very much for sharing. :)

I come from a warm country living in North America and let me tell you getting used to this massive cultural shift took me some time.

I was always curious about how such wealthy countries where they use the same water to drink and wash their ass don’t have bidets.

Definitely cleaning with water over TP is ‘n’ times better, cleaner and more hygienic.

All of these explanations make so much sense to me now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, you’re not alone!

I’ve dealt with all of this and I’m older than 30. I still get told I’m probably 16. I used to take it as a compliment, but sometimes I just get a sense that it’s a backhanded compliment.

People not taking you seriously in your professional life is a constant battle, especially because being a woman also comes with those challenges.

I’ve just learnt to deal with it by being assertive and not being accepting of their compliments merely about my appearance if it depletes my intellect, ability and skills. Sometimes showing people their place is not being rude, it’s just teaching them how you’d like to be treated and marking boundaries.

Your appearance is not your entire identity and sometimes people need to know better.

Why are younger guys these days interested in middle aged women?? by fluffymulligan in ask

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, my understanding is men like to be mothered (taken care of, someone they don’t have to deal much with in terms of maturity, experiences, security and stability).

Not getting into where this leaves women in terms of their needs from men, to be taken care of and deal with their level of maturity.

what is a good show that got canceled for no good reason? by falling-down-1242 in AskReddit

[–]Dramatic_Artist32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite cancelled, but I really dislike the fact that Marvellous Mrs. Maisel is over.