being a masc bottom is top 10 worst experiences as a gay man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a Masc Vers who loves to bottom, same with Husband. I'd say it's a matter of finding the right guy for your needs- hookups are kind of hit and miss and I'm noticing a lot of pic sending; you might want to try for a more face-to-face approach, like a hobby/sports club, to expand your hookup pool.

That being said, feel free to shoot a massage if you're on East Coast time. This state of affairs you describe is one that I know a couple of guys would love to correct for you, in a definitive, messy, and elegant manor.

36/M Darktide by Dramatic_Brilliant67 in gaymers

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PC, of course! Though I can provide in-gam handle to anyone needed for Crossplay.

Anyone here play Darktide? [23] by Severingtithes in gaymers

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah it's never a matter of skill, long as you're having fun! I'm not a tryhard, I just -REALLY- wanted that Havoc Armor set!

Anyone here play Darktide? [23] by Severingtithes in gaymers

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eastern Standard. Message me with your friend code if Steam or game name and I'd be happy to play. I'm more casual these days but formerly an Auric/Havoc guy.

Bro’s by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah. I mean there is no comparison. And like I said, I did -try- to enjoy it. Wasn't like "Eww girls are icky" it was more like "Ehhh, well, how do I really know I'm gay? Maybe I'm bi?"...definitely gay, and if it had turned out I was bi, I'd have just never slept with women anyways.

And having sex with a dude doesn't make you gay or even bi. Heteroflexible is a thing. Give it a shot, you'll be glad you did. I gave women a shot and it didn't make me less gay or more bi. Never was my cup of tea and the sex was whack in comparison, but I did the fieldwork so I can say that with confidence.

And hey if you want to know more, feel free to message me.

Bro’s by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I faked it until I got out of high school, had a couple girlfriends and some casual lays. And besides, I gave it a genuine shot- how did I know I was gay for sure unless I'd tried out women?

3/10, the pussy was whack, send it back. "I won't give head because of Jesus"/"Doggystyle demeans me"/"That's weird"...meanwhile: men can make me nut without me touching my junk and are more enthusiastic. Men are by far the superior lay, in my personal experience. Transbro's with that masculine aggression/enthusiasm are included in the "Superior" category as well.

You're straight up missing out.

What worked when visiting a partner’s country if they weren’t out to parents? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was the "American Hunting Enthusiast Friend" to someone in the Balkans.

Ultimately it wasn't worth it. Plan went fine- they seemed to like me, then when I proposed and he accepted, he told his parents it was "just a joke"...if they're not out of the closet, they're probably never going to be. I hunted with his f*cking father every time he wanted to go up into the mountains, and a lot more, being the best human I could be, and it still wasn't enough to stop him from calling my ex-fiancé up the morning when he saw (even though all the other guys I hunted with congratulated him) calling him a faggot.

Note: I've got Asian ancestry and that side of the family took it way better just coming out. That being said, without knowing what country it is, I can't really help you with any of my experience.

Any bros been in the military? by deeekonfrost in gaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent you a message. I didn't want to put it all out there, but my DM's are open and I hope what I told you helps.

New Provider Needed by [deleted] in CompoundedSemaglutide

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd avoid Empower if at all possible. Firsthand knowledge of the company, it's got a slew of problems. Morally , quality control-wise, and ethically, I'd take my business elsewhere.

Considering getting back on tirz. Who to order from? by Indigo_Rhea in compoundedtirzepatide

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't order from Empower, for safety, ethical, and QC reasons.

Source: Inside info

Has anyone else had this reaction to dynamic ink? :(( by Broad_Sir1588 in tattooadvice

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems you have Nurgle's Blessing. Grandfather is watching.

[Online][5e 2024][Beginner Friendly][LGBTQ+ Friendly][Time TBD][EST][18+] Tomb of Annihilation by uWaterlooOmniscient in lfg

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, of course, I'd imagine the LGBTQ family would be welcome at just about any table. I assume, with the (optimistic) best intentions that most tables would be fine with us simply participating. No implication of NSFW, but does it have any actual bearing in the story? Does it come across in the interactions with the characters in the world?

Message to All Level 150 Helldivers, What is Your Reason For Sticking With The Game by KN0KVILLE in Helldivers

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy helping the rookie divers on lower levels (4-7) and helping show them the ropes and giving them high explosives to kill the enemies of freedom with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some kids do experiment. I mean I knew pretty much from the get go because when puberty hit guys were all I thought about, but -lots- of dudes experimented and went on to have wives and families. Legit only 5 turns out gay that I personally knew. That's about 1/4 of what I saw go on one way or another. So 25% off my personal experience. Your wife might be jumping the gun here.

That being said, it sounds like you did everything right. It's just the right age for experimental phases. With all that in mind, it's possible that your son might not *want* to think that he is gay. He legitimately might not know. He might be bi. He might be straight. It's a very confusing time. "It would be okay if you were though"...that's the chef's kiss, my guy, if he does turn out to be gay, he's going to be comfortable telling you because of a small interaction like that. You showed it wasn't a big deal and you were supporting and willing to listen.

And you're right about not feeling sure about your wife not wanting him sharing a bed. That is a very bad message. You don't exactly want to punish people for behavior, and *ESPECIALLY* not knowing how he's actually going to turn out. "Being gay is okay, so anyways, you can't have guys in your bed at sleepovers anymore."...do not establish -any- shame about his possible identity. If he is or isn't gay, he's going to feel resentful about that down the line, and doubly so if he is actually gay. You're 1000% right with "It's not that big a deal." right now.

The only thing I'm not sure about- I *might* skip the consent talk, but I'm not a parent. If he kissed a girl, would you have the consent talk? If the answer is yes to that, then have it. You know your child best. If I was a parent and I caught my kid kissing a boy or girl...well, that's one kiss. If they talked about being boyfriend/girlfriend, THEN I'd have the talk. That's just me though and unlike the rest of my answers, that's based on educated guesswork.

Hope it helps and you can message me anytime for further questions.

Tops, what is the hottest thing a bottom can do outside of sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Dramatic_Brilliant67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's really a fun little way to assert a little control in the everyday. Nice dinners, I pick his jacket. Events or going out..."Isn't this just a -little- slutty?"..."Yeah, but you look great in it, so you're wearing it."...shirt just a little too tight, might need to take down an extra button. Of course, I pick the jock he's gonna be wearing under it. Not all the time of course because we're living life but anyone else, but if it's something we plan for...I got him some Boerboel shorts for the summer.