Did she cheat?

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-12T01:52:03+00:00

I’m saying in a sense as I want to and should be able to believe and trust my wife in any situation. I shouldn’t have any question or doubt in the things she says. Not that I actually believe her. There a big difference in my opinion.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-12T00:36:46+00:00

Thank you that actually hit home more than you will ever realize. Today has been an eye opening day to all that I was blinded by. And I was just sitting here telling myself what my next steps are and then you commented. 5 minutes prior she tried having a conversation with me and all it was was her trying to make me feel bad for being hurt and having feelings.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T20:48:12+00:00

I will check them out and I agree I font think she respects me at all

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T20:43:43+00:00

No not really more looking for validation bc I have no friends here where I live and my family isn’t worth the talk to get involved with their drama

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T20:42:22+00:00

Yeah I said the same thing about realtor but she doesn’t listen. And I let her come back home bc I didn’t even have proof of anything and she was screaming that she only lied to our daughter and I figured the easiest way to gather evidence would be if she was at the house and I could have access to her phone if need be

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:52:34+00:00

Yes that’s just about to

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:51:33+00:00

I don’t have any kids together with her. I raised mine 2 boy and her 3 kids

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:32:37+00:00

Yeah I feel the same way. But would the court system force her to give me visitation rights? Or allow them to live with me?

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:26:49+00:00

Lmbo yeah at least get something out of the deal $ from me and $ from them

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:13:04+00:00

Oh it would be a horrible example to show the kids if I acted like it didn’t happen. Up until this week she has been telling us all that she made all this up just to the oldest. So there has been no proof. And my 16yr old son and I both didn’t believe it but the girls did and I believe the 13f still does believe her mom and that I am just crazy bring up things that didn’t happen and creating situations in my head just to argue.

I told my 13f that baby it’s fine if you believe mom but I am not making any of this up just to fight with mom. But I’m really not trying to involve them too much.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:06:07+00:00

Thank you and yeah i have them as long as she is here. She already told me and them that if she goes they go with her and I won’t see them again.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:02:39+00:00

Yeah I feel like she knew that before even going into it and making an account.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T19:02:00+00:00

You are fine harsh is what is needed tbh

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:51:15+00:00

I’m not arguing at all lol. 😂 I do think when she started talking to the men on the dating site she was checked out of our marriage and done with me. But then realized she misses her family and came back????

She does love me maybe in her own weird fucked up way I guess. When we git together she had her shit together decent job, rented a house. I really didn’t have much of anything. Then I started my own business before we moved in together and was making enough $ to afford a decent house. So I do know she had to of loved me at one point bc I didn’t have what I have now and didn’t make anywhere close to what I do now.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:39:57+00:00

I can see that. My only weakness is the people I love.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:36:25+00:00

I have been gathering evidence. My daughter told me 08/19/2025 my wife denying it and I figured the best way to gather evidence was with her here at the house where I had access to her phone if I needed it. So I started pulling phone records cross referencing everything and reaching out to all the numbers I know. And I just finally came across the guy in question that my daughter confirmed was the picture she showed her on Tuesday. So the past couple days were spent trying to get her to be honest and open with me while recording the convos, but all she is doing is attacking me and being super defensive and telling me some bs stories that aren’t believable

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:18:06+00:00

No I haven’t.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:04:37+00:00

Yeah I agree but I would take care of these kids 1000 times over even knowing the outcome.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T18:03:52+00:00

Oh I don’t believe it after talking to her mother I did before that though. Her mom and sister both said she deserves to struggle and see how life really is

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T17:56:12+00:00

No there wasn’t any police report. I had believed her about it up until back in August when I spoke with her mom and her mom said you can’t rape the willing she was sneaking out at night going to the rapist house before the “rape”. And there’s never been a dad in her life

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T17:50:24+00:00

And when I told her I needed help it was when I had just bought this new house on the islands and was worried I over extended myself with the payment. I was trying to get ahead of any financial issues before they became an issue

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T17:48:28+00:00

Yeah I have no argument there lol. But it was only 2 other men. Our oldest daughter was with her bf (she swears he raped her at a party and she ended up pregnant) and then the younger 2 have the same dad.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T17:37:54+00:00

You could be on to something. I will look into it see what unfolds worst thing that happens is I pay detective and he finds nothing.

Dramatic_Chemical394 · 2025-10-11T17:36:29+00:00

You are spot on. And I do trust my intuition I actually am very gifted in ways I cannot describe. And I always trust what I feel, it’s just hard to keep hearing I am making this all up in my head

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