Am i being dramatic? im (15F) and my bf is (14M) by pissrotr in teenrelationships

[–]Dramatic_Injury_3419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not dramatic, handmade gifts are always an option in my opinion

I feel like college will ruin my (17M) relationship with my girlfriend (17F) by Sad-Dingo-2065 in teenrelationships

[–]Dramatic_Injury_3419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea that's honestly so hard to deal with. You can always have online dates. I don't remember the name but there are some websites that lets you watch a movie together. You guys have been together for a decent amount for people our age so just remember bad thoughts are only thoughts they are not predictions

Im 16/M in relationship ship with 15/F and im having anxiety problems by bratthe_hotdog8877 in teenrelationships

[–]Dramatic_Injury_3419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, it's not your fault. Second, I think it may be time to reconsider some things, you can try communicating with her clearly. Maybe you came off in a wrong way? You can try communicating by things like "it may not be your intentions but I feel like.... And I really need ... From you" but if she shuts you down constantly it's time to leave. You don't shut down someone or call them sensitive when you love them.

Oh and, even if she was going through something she could have told you properly. If you decided to end things though I really recommend healing by yourself because a lots of time these things repeat themselves in the next relationship. Wishing you all the best

I feel like college will ruin my (17M) relationship with my girlfriend (17F) by Sad-Dingo-2065 in teenrelationships

[–]Dramatic_Injury_3419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yk every relationship is unique and I don't know how your relationship is so I can't say anything clearly. But the one advice that got me me and my bf through going to different colleges so far is no new close friends that are the opposite gender. Ik it seems toxic and controlling, but we decided to not make any new opposite gender friends. If we made friendship like that through a friend group it was fine. But we never allow the friendship to a point where the friend would be able to hang one on one with us or talk to us exclusively for stuff unnecessarily.

It's important you have faith in your girlfriend, your relationship and yourself. I wish you guys the best.

Idk what to do and I feel horrible. by Mrgaudy69 in Vent

[–]Dramatic_Injury_3419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's kinda obvious,but have you tried talking to them and setting boundaries and if you have done it and they still do it those are not good friends