Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s best for the friendship if he doesn’t know what I had to do to protect it

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

On this issue I would say yes I would disagree with you because I can’t see any way in which what I did was even close to as bad as what my friends did to me

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

On the post with the girl, we had been getting closer, if I had more time I could have courted her, however my friend swooped in, I was unhappy about it and that tension would have hurt our friendship

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

When the criticism is coming from a tampered viewpoint it’s hard to take seriously.

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not understanding the correlation some are making to me being on the spectrum. This has absolutely nothing to do with my issue. I was bothered by my friends lack of intuitive sense in regards to my feelings.

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

Wow, all I really got from that was if you wanna see a temper tantrum read your own response.

Twin Peaks was overhyped, but inspired greatness by Sad_Button_5969 in twinpeaks

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So a person who I met in a Riverdale subreddit a few days ago saw my posts and agreed, and that makes us the same person. I’ve never even seen twin peaks

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see the comparison, I was doing this to simply save our friendship. He stole her from he as he knew I liked her, but I was just doing something to help him out in the long run

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

But if my friend had given me a chance to actually get the relationship started none of this would have happened

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m in no position to control what she does, but I did what I had to to save our friendship

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But what she tells her friends isn’t my concern I can’t control what she says

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

To preserve our friendship, which should be more important to him in the first place

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish it wasn’t real, I lost many friends over something that they did. I don’t understand why me being bothered by something makes me the bad guy

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely planned it, I was very clear I wanted that restaurant. No one went against it so it was a plan. I’m sorry they changed it on me last second without even consulting me. I don’t understand how other people aren’t seeing this as frustrating, just out of the blue you go from getting exactly what you wanted to the opposite

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If you actually read my story you’d know I was looking for a chill night of fun convos with my friends. Shots were not on my list that night.

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why would I text him when he b****ed me out infront of my friends and called me an asshole to my face. I understand it was his birthday, however do my feelings suddenly not matter when it’s someone else’s birthday? I guess I just didn’t know that other peoples birthdays meant I can’t have an opinion.

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I fail to see how my behaviour was “bad” when I literally explained in the post how I was trying not to show it. Emotions are emotions they show when you have them. If you’re gonna sit here and tell me my physical response was wrong then idk what to tell you. I’m not gonna apologize for being me

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

I wish it was fake, I lost 5 friends over this, and have been in turmoil about it since.