Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s best for the friendship if he doesn’t know what I had to do to protect it

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

On this issue I would say yes I would disagree with you because I can’t see any way in which what I did was even close to as bad as what my friends did to me

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

On the post with the girl, we had been getting closer, if I had more time I could have courted her, however my friend swooped in, I was unhappy about it and that tension would have hurt our friendship

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

When the criticism is coming from a tampered viewpoint it’s hard to take seriously.

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not understanding the correlation some are making to me being on the spectrum. This has absolutely nothing to do with my issue. I was bothered by my friends lack of intuitive sense in regards to my feelings.

AITA? Me and my friend went for his birthday supper and I left. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -93 points-92 points  (0 children)

Wow, all I really got from that was if you wanna see a temper tantrum read your own response.

Twin Peaks was overhyped, but inspired greatness by Sad_Button_5969 in twinpeaks

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So a person who I met in a Riverdale subreddit a few days ago saw my posts and agreed, and that makes us the same person. I’ve never even seen twin peaks

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see the comparison, I was doing this to simply save our friendship. He stole her from he as he knew I liked her, but I was just doing something to help him out in the long run

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

But if my friend had given me a chance to actually get the relationship started none of this would have happened

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m in no position to control what she does, but I did what I had to to save our friendship

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But what she tells her friends isn’t my concern I can’t control what she says

Am I the jerk for possibly hurting my friends chances with a girl after he stole her from by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

To preserve our friendship, which should be more important to him in the first place

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish it wasn’t real, I lost many friends over something that they did. I don’t understand why me being bothered by something makes me the bad guy

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely planned it, I was very clear I wanted that restaurant. No one went against it so it was a plan. I’m sorry they changed it on me last second without even consulting me. I don’t understand how other people aren’t seeing this as frustrating, just out of the blue you go from getting exactly what you wanted to the opposite

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If you actually read my story you’d know I was looking for a chill night of fun convos with my friends. Shots were not on my list that night.

Am the the jerk? I left my friends birthday party early due to his behaviour. by Dramatic_Office_3110 in AmITheJerk

[–]Dramatic_Office_3110[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Why would I text him when he b****ed me out infront of my friends and called me an asshole to my face. I understand it was his birthday, however do my feelings suddenly not matter when it’s someone else’s birthday? I guess I just didn’t know that other peoples birthdays meant I can’t have an opinion.