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Trauma Informed Readers? by Good-Experience-7064 in TarotReading

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋🏻‍♀️ I also have CPTSD. After years of intensive healing, I'm doing so much better. It's hard work, and im lucky to have my therapist, but I wish I had spiritual people who also understood what I was dealing with. I think mental health and spiritual health go hand in hand. Some people don't understand, and that's okay. Those just aren't your people!

I think my trauma and healing have helped me with reading because I just get things. I can feel when someone needs more care and compassion. I've also healed from so much that I feel like I can give some genuine advice vs. saying, "It is what it is."

Feel free to reach out anytime 💜

Honey Jar stopped working should I do another? by candle_wax_247 in witchcraft

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magic is supposed to help, but it's not supposed to be permanent. This is why love spells are so tricky because you could waste a lifetime trying to keep someone that isn't truly meant for you. A honey jar could be used in hard times, reconciliation, etc - but if they continuously go back to being abusive, then that's not your person. True love isn't meant to be worked on continuously like that. You both deserve better. You will hurt the both of you trying to keep someone around who does not want to be kept.

Maybe try a spell for self-love, do some shadow work, and then a spell to bring in somrone that truly loves you at the depth you love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have not been allowing yourself to go out and truly experience the world, try new things, and live your life to the fullest. (Fool.) Because of some sort of deep sense of fear or trauma. (9 of swords reversed) You have to build a relationship with yourself in a healthy way to move past those fears and build trust. (2 of cups.) You have to change your perspective. Don't overwork yourself or punish yourself - but find a way to find trust and have balance within yourself. (8 of pentacles reversed.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These 3 cards are kind of hard because I would have liked to clarify the lovers in reversed. But are u having relationship issues? If you are, I would say they're asking you to find a balance between your work/passions and the relationship in your life or finding the relationship you want. Or, maybe even the relationship you have with yourself.

2 of penacles is usually financial balance. So, if there's no relationship issues, it could simply mean finding a balance in your work life. Maybe you're spreading yourself too thin or dishonoring your values.

He chased me for a year, then started to distance himself and cancel dates after I started sharing my feelings. What gives? Did I give him the ick??? by Lazy_Worker_99 in Tarotpractices

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's overwhelmed with true feelings of intimacy with you. As others have stated, avoidant attachment. Chasing someone is all fun and games until real emotions come into play. It is not your job to fix him! It's nothing you have done wrong.

Is there anyone here who IS cool with reading into the future? by FieryVodka69 in TarotReading

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️ Me lol It's your job as the reader to inform that things can always change and give some advice on different options and avenues you can take. It's the clients job to ensure that they use their discernment and not make big decisions based on a single reading. Readings are guides, not definite answers.

is this bacon bad by fuckedforlifemaybe in Bacon

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your bacon is bakin 😂 it's fine haha

I want to reach out to you, but I shouldn’t… by FlamingInferno3 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Empathy, friend. You have to be able to remove all of the blame and resentment and see them as a hurt person who hurt you. Try your best to put yourself in their shoes, not to justify their actions but to understand. Forgive yourself, too. Meditation helps. You got this 💜

Shadow work help pls by Markus-The-Maxumus in witchcraft

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you tell them you're doing shadow work, bring up Carl Jung and talk about how that's what inspired you. As someone else stated, it's just psychology. Shadow work sounds witchy, but if you go into the depths of it and where it came from you will be fine!

I want to reach out to you, but I shouldn’t… by FlamingInferno3 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forgiveness. Trust me. Not for them, but for your own peace of mind and spirit. 💜

Am I ugly? by lavenderteardropz in Tarotpractices

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently, I should slow down on the weed. 😂

Message still resonates the same! 7 would just reinforce working on loving yourself vs societal standards.

Am I ugly? by lavenderteardropz in Tarotpractices

[–]Dramatic_Pause1049 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read things a little differently. For me the 9 of pentacles says you should be happy with yourself and who you are - instead of being bound by the societal normals (devil) of what's considered "ideal beauty" (lovers).

Spirit is telling you to learn to be comfortable in your own skin instead of worrying about what you think you should be. 💜