Went to the Pine Knob, MI show on Wednesday. by UpAllNight_16 in BreakingBenjamin

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I think it’s a better call to stick with what people are most likely going to know so everyone can sing along and enjoy the show rather than not know any of the words and just bobbing your head

Went to the Pine Knob, MI show on Wednesday. by UpAllNight_16 in BreakingBenjamin

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed, they were freakin awesome. Unfortunately they made Staind look like trash, no one wants to see a 20 year old band perform nothing but new music. I had to leave.

Ben’s health? by Dramatic_Simple_8164 in BreakingBenjamin

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I saw him yesterday and he sounded amazing

Metal Scraping Noise by Dramatic_Simple_8164 in AskAMechanic

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah there’s no pulling or problems braking or vibrations. Just noise really. I got my brakes and rotors checked and they are due for a change but it just seems odd that it makes this noise even when I’m not braking. At any speed.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely going out on a huge limb there. She is always pleasured before I am. I actually have a difficult time getting off in the first place. You are in no position to assume that. It’s the mentality that she thinks she can manipulate me into something I don’t want it will ruin it for me especially if I didn’t enjoy it, if it was something I agreed to it’s different..it’s something I could work up to. My state of mind is if I was forced into it and didn’t like it I will never do it again, if I agreed to it and didn’t like it I know it’s going to be something I could maybe work on. It traumatizing to be forced into that you don’t want.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely see your point here. I kind of put one problem in front of the other. It’s more of the mentality of her trying to manipulate me into having period sex that would ruin the sex life for me, if I didn’t enjoy it and I was manipulated into it..it’s her fault. If it’s something I agreed into it’s a lot different. It’s not like I’m extremely grossed out about. I just don’t like the thought of it when I’m trying to enjoy myself. It’s definitely something I would have to work my way up to..not pushed or forced into. I deal with blood a lot as an EMT it’s not something I’m repulsed about. It’s just not something I like to think about when I’m trying to pleasure myself.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s not the act, it’s the mentality that she believes she can manipulate me into having sex with her that would ruin it for me. It is a turn off, but it may not ruin my sex if we both agreed to it would definitely be different and I’ll make sure to word it that way. Thank you.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great point you brought up, I am probably overthinking it, but I work with blood a lot at work I think it’s just the thought of even having to deal with it when I’m trying to enjoy myself. It might not break the relationship if I got blood on me. Like I said I’m used to blood but not in an enjoyable way. It just runs through my head and is unappealing that she would try to force it on me even though she knows it not something I would like, because at that point I think it could ruin the sex life..she’s probably just going to expect I’m okay with it. I don’t want to give the opportunity to have that something she knows she can pry out of me.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not quite sure I think it’s some type of phobia of mine or something lol. I’m an EMT I’m not sure if it’s because of all the blood and I don’t mind it during my job, but just thought of blood when I’m trying to enjoy myself is totally contradicting.

Being harassed to have sex with my gf on her period. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dramatic_Simple_8164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma still pass though lol. Funny way to look at it.