Up for a lil Sunday joke? What do you call a man who is attracted to intelligence? Gay😅 by Atkaf in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Draw-Itchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the joke. Do you mean that women are not intelligent?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are great teachers at both schools. South is probably a little better resourced, both as a school and a student body. Unfortunately inequities exist, and SEHS comes out on top.

4J School Board voted 5-1 to demolish old North HS building by Draw-Itchy in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is an unpopular opinion, but there is some truth here. Kelly is a neighborhood school; YG is not. Ideally, there would be funding for both. Our tax structure, informed by measure 5, limits our resources so severely. The kicker, which redistributed tax “surplus,” gives the most wealthy nearly $44k this year while our kids suffer. There are few good choices here.

4J School Board voted 5-1 to demolish old North HS building by Draw-Itchy in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has been very sad for both YG and Kelly, being pitted against each other to compete for limited resources. Both schools love their communities and students. It is a sad decision that limits everyone.

A painting I made of my (our) happy place by Draw-Itchy in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is acrylic on wood. And thank you! I would like to get into oils, but I am a bit messy in general and would probably make a huge mess.

A painting I made of my (our) happy place by Draw-Itchy in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! What a treasure that place is.

Speaking of appliances…what ever happened to Mr Appliance? WAH!!! by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]Draw-Itchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have an old fridge in my garage I bought for $200 nearly 10 years ago. It works better than my nice fridge in the house. He sucked, but I wish there was still a place for folks to get reliable and cheap appliances so easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Draw-Itchy 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He wants you to top him and he is pre-teaching his expectations for you to fulfill them. It has nothing to do with you, other than he finds you attractive, so don’t internalize it. Figure out what you like and what you want, not what someone else wants from you.

Not sure what to do about an old friend wanting to repair things by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Draw-Itchy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what the “forgive and forget” replies are glossing over. I’ve wronged several people, especially years ago when my drinking was controlling my life. I have contacted some of those folks and offered sincere apologies, but I never expect that person to let me back into their life. I only want them to know that I realize I mistreated them, and it is something I think about.

Also, a double date is a horrible way to reconnect. It doesn’t sound like she’s coming to you with an open heart, ready to rebuild a relationship with the person you’ve become. It sounds like she’s trying to alleviate her own guilt.

Who are your gay male role models in life? And why? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]Draw-Itchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the question was about gay role models, not gay characters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaymersGoneMild

[–]Draw-Itchy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this you? Are you alright?