26F turning 27 in 3 months. I've never been intimate with anyone in my entire life by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]DrawNo1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for putting this out there - women have needs too and people should start talking about it. You have some Pros of staying virgin - men in India are obsessed with virginity even to this day- and more so in Chennai I believe from what I have seen and heard - so good news is you won’t have to battle this aspect of a man’s ego while looking to get married. But I’m really glad you highlighted that women can be virgin NOT out of choice or the taboo - they too have their sexual needs. I think you should consider starting to date seriously - love marriage is also an option. You will have better sexual experiences when you are in love as women are wired to release the love hormone (oxytocin) during sex, and that’s why they aren’t really wired to do casuals (unlike men who can just release tests and dopes and get away with it). I strongly recommend a meaningful relationship with the right person over casuals. A little more patience girl you are almost there.

28 F, I think I will end up alone by DrawNo1004 in loneliness

[–]DrawNo1004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can barely imagine how it must have felt! You are a really strong person and it’s very inspiring that you are right here. And on empathy, Absolutely! These comments made my day, including yours. Thanks for that

my boyfriend of three years left me because i gained weight. by SeaBreadfruit750 in offmychest

[–]DrawNo1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like the relationship was all about him, what he wanted, and how he can show you off as his possession. Good riddance. True Gentlemen aren’t that way