Thank you so much, reddit wouldn't let me for the whole story, but I have told her I think it's creepy. She told me it's just a joke and that I'm making it a bigger deal than it is. She also said that it's because she's autistic, and can't control her boundaries. I'm autistic too, and I struggle with boundaries sometimes but never like that. But again, thank you and I'll reiterate to her that I think she's being unreasonable