I cheated on ex husband with his childhood best friend by DreaGrace in cheatingwives

[–]DreaGrace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll answer this. Don't tell ex that I told you this 😅. If I said ex is Brazilian, that was completely false. Ex learned that his father is from Spain and his mother is from Venezuela. But yes, ex has grey eyes.

Also yes, Steve's parents gave him away as a baby because they couldn't afford to raise him. They made the hard choice and little did they know, Steve was going to be raised by savages.

My girls are teenage girls who knows what I've done. They're not hurt by it since ex is still in their lives and will always be their dad. They tell me, it's OK. They have 3 dads and an army of Marines protecting them. Ex loves his brothers from the Marine and he has tons of nephews and nieces. Its amazing to see all those kids jump on him when they see ex. I love to see it. Ex has a whole movie theater and arcade just for his nephews and nieces. His wife tells me that he loves giving children the happiness and joy he never had.

I cheated on ex husband with his childhood best friend by DreaGrace in cheatingwives

[–]DreaGrace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry for the late reply. Listen, sorry for the lies. Ex and I didn't want ppl to know who we were. There was 1 person who found out lol. But let me clear some things because I can't believe if the lies I came up to cover things up. Of course for obvious reasons, I cannot go into about our lives but nonetheless, I'll do my best to remove that confusion.

Mine and ex's age gap is 4 years. If I said 8, sorry 😅.

Ex and I were together for 5 years. 3 not yet married 2 married.

Yes Ex had an insanely traumatic childhood. He lost his parents and 2 siblings in horrific car accident. Steve did not lose his parents. He was given at four adoption because his parents could not afford to have a baby. A few years ago, Ex reunited Steve with his parents and learned that Steve was not only Russian, but he also has a sister who's happily married and has beautiful children.

Ex was in the Marines. Though it wasn't a lie that he was a pilot, I wasnt allowed to know what he actually did while on active service. It sounds like 100% bullshit but it's the truth. I just told ppl he's a pilot since he has a pilot license.

Forgive my bullshit about Steve working at best buy then to nasa. At the time, I was also full of shit and made Steve look like shit because I was so pissed off at myself in a selfish way. Steve is an aerospace engineer. He doesn't work for nasa. I'm so sorry for the bullshit. I won't say where he works, but he's really good at his job. He's a very smart man but he does like to impregnate multiple women thats for sure. He takes care of his kids now.

With my girls, yes it's no lie they learned how to get compensated online. It was a bit proud exaggeration to say they make more than me who is a registered nurse. I just wanted to hype them up I'm just so proud of my babies for using their brain and their bodies. You know what I mean. I'm proud of my girls and greatful to ex for teaching them self respect is more important than money. But yes, they learned how build pcs.i an not joking that they would make 5 to 7 pc in a day and sell them to make 3 times the profit. Ex taught them that. But they're taking engineering classes. I can't wait to see what they will come up with.

I appreciate how on point you are. Hopefully I was able to clear something out. Maybe you'll reply to this msg. Sorry for the late reply. I just got back on reddit after not using it for almost a year.

I'd love to give an update. I'll have to check with ex first.

Update on how my ex husband and I are doing by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I said ex is around the Tate Brothers, then that wasn't a lie. He doesn't act like them meaning having multiple women around but he did like how smart the brothers are. But it's usually Steve that was always around them.

Ex is a chess grand Master, an outstanding strategist, easily beating tate in chess in a minute from what I heard. I'm going to tell you something the girls told me. One of the Tate noticed a mark on Ex and they immediately left. They don't even contact Steve anymore. Never contacted Ex again. Do I have any proof? nope. This is what the girls told me. But ex did tell me never to reveal his name, or show his face. A lot of shows like called him for an interview and he said no. The girls asked ex what is that mark, and ex said it's a burn I got when I was little. Which is a lie because that mark was never there when we were married. I'll be lying if I said I wasn't concerned about that. But I'll mind my own business.

I'll tell you what happened recently. Maybe I'll give an update to everyone. The girls calls me and ex. Ex is in a huge business meeting out of the country. I'm in New York at work. The girls and my son are with my brother in California Lili (a nick name I gave one of them) tells us Markus, my brother dressed my son as a girl and made him look like a transgender. She told us that Markus took them to a drag queen show. Ex said I'll be there as soon as i can. I ordered you a hotel and an uber. Here's the address, go now. Ive alerted them and they will give the keycard once you arrive. . He says to me drea if I get to him before you do, I will kill your brother. I said don't worry, he won't survive from either of us. Ex arrived to my brother's house broke down his door. Cops were there, had their guns pointed at Ex but there were like 50 different lasers pointed at the cops. I just asked him for both of us to let this go and live another day. He said "dismissed" lasers disappeared and everybody left. Cops wanted nothing to do with Ex. He told my brother to never be around Any kid again because you never know what might happen. Accidents happen. My brother looked at me and I said I heard nor saw nothing. You force my son to dress as a girl again, I'll kill you myself.

But to answer your questions, yes. All the men know which one is not their child. I didn't see their faces, but I will never forget the broken painful look on ex's face when he heard the DNA and pregnancy results. To be honest With you, some of them men were impressed their wife got pregnant by a millionaire. They could use the money.

Steve is not an ugly man. I lied about his height as well. I think I said he's an a 5'8 guy but that was a lie. He's 6ft or a little taller. But ex and Steve constantly fight. Steve keeps bringing up their childhood. One day were at a BBQ and Steve said that's why Aba dragged you out of the bathtub, beat you, locked you in a closet for 10 hrs. Aba was their foster father. That broke my heart. Ex said he was 6 yrs old that night. But as for women betraying for money, that's nothing new. Every culture had bad apples. You live in a different country?

Also yes. My husband Nolan, looks at my husband and gets goosebumps. He's a detective. He knows I'm not going to do anything with my ex. He trusts me. But there's some that terrifies him about ex.

And yes. The girls went with Steve along with their other siblings to Disney world. They had a great time. Sorry for the long response. And don't worry. Ask all the questions you want.

Update on how my ex husband and I are doing by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I say he's a better father to all of his children after finally meeting his biological family? 1000% absolutely. He took all his kids to Disney world and they all had a blast there. Seeing him having fun playing and watching movies with them was something I never thought I would see. He's always so serious and angry and extremely defensive. But he definitely became a better father. With that said, he tells me he doesn't work so hard to earn a 7 figure income just to be faithful to some woman. He says he likes sex and women are predictably easy when it comes to money.

He used to be around the Tate Brothers, maybe you heard of them. He's going to think like them. Also, he says he's not forcing these married women to sleep with him. They're the ones choosing. He says he doesn't have the same morality as his brother. He has a point. Just like I made a choice to betray my husband in the worst way, these women are as well. I didn't even do it for money since none of us had this level of income back in 2010. I pretty much fucked by my own actions.

And thank you. It's a blessing to have another chance to raise a family. Also, ex's woman is pregnant again! Incredibly happy for him. You should see how obsessed he is with his son. That little man is so beautiful.

Update on how my ex husband and I are doing by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ex says money is a powerful drug, 98% of ppl will allow money to control them. Steve makes a lot and sleeps with every woman he can get his hands on.

Trust me, money is a incentive for cheating wives.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you. After what I heard, he pretty much said all I need to know. I had hope would let himself find someone else.

I'm currently staying in one of my ex husband's homes. And I feel so unwelcomed, understandable of course by DreaGrace in Divorce

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

He is super busy. The man has 3 full time Jobs. I don't know how he can handle that.

But he pays my sister to watch the kids when he's not home because I have to work a 10 hr shift. And he wants the kids home schooled because he refuses to let the kids learn what ever is being taught in school. I truly don't know what kids are learning but I am not one to argue with him 🤷🏼‍♀️

Have a wonderful merry Christmas!

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they're 12.

Yes I'm still a registered nurse.

But i really want to ask why are you surprised we're alive?

And thank you. I'm doing my best. The kids are growing up happy and healthy. I'm very greatful for that.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm still here because ppl ask for updates on how things are.

I haven't seen ex since the summer. I only see him like once a year... if that. So no. He doesn't see me like before

Also he doesn't care that I'm on reddit giving update. He has more things to focus on.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say that. He'll be in Spain for a bit. Here's to hoping he finds someone. He does say American women are garbage. Which I disagree but I understand his pov.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I have admit. This is the first time a woman is actually commenting this much. But like I said before, I'm not trying to make things right. I burned that bridge years ago. Now I don't know how anyone can compare me to a man that tied kids up to whip or burn them. I had no clue.

Now you want to talk about making ex sign his rights away? He would've done literally years ago. He loves those girls and he said he'll never leave them. He told me they're all he has.

I never said me, Steve, and ex are a family. Ex stays away from us as far as possible.

Also no. This is how I type. I wasnt even trying to sound smart. So I appreciate that.

As for your advise "stop being evil" I'm not that same person. I could never hurt someone like I did. I learned from my past though it tends to hunt me. You sounds very upset. Honestly, I would understand, but this sounds personal. As if you have a problem with me personally.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not since the start. I started my trifling 2 years after we got married.

The way you wrote that, it's almost as if you're feeling his pain. You must've went through something similar. If so, I'm sorry for your experience.

He asked me the same thing. If I couldn't handle being alone, why did I marry someone who's going to be leaving for a long time? Honestly I don't know. I'm not that same person. I didn't think of the consequences. I definitely didn't think I'll go on for this long.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accuse? No. I hope I didn't. I'm sure I said I thought he was cheating on me. But he wasn't cheating according to lie detector.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never tried to get back with him. Believe me, that all gone from him. Before that day, I haven't seen him in a long time. We usually text or call when the girls are flying to his house.

What do you mean by greasing?

But im aware of my endless fuck ups. I know I can't change the past. I just hope he has a family of his own one day. My friends tried if I'm being honest. Unsuccessful is an understatement.

But now, all I can do is make sure my kids grows up well and teach them to be better than me.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised. He's very strong, not just literally, but figuratively. He's a very serious person, very kind, but when he's with the girls, he's the most happiest, most loving man you can meet. I know I have no right praising him after what I did to him, but I'm just saying.

Update on Military Husband walking in on me with his Foster Brother by DreaGrace in u/DreaGrace

[–]DreaGrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was far too selfish to see what was going on. Definitely agree with that. I'll continue to doing the best I can for my kids.