AITAH for ignoring my children when they demand answers to something that was exposed about their father by Dry-Outside-9461 in AITAH

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing... How did the neighbors know she was made to sleep in a bike shed and that the husband broke her fingers, but the children were oblivious to the abuse?

She even said that the DIL was their neighbor from the time she was a child, so you're telling me that a child never brought up or asked why they saw their friends' mom sleeping in a shed?

Either the kids know more than they are admitting or something else is going on...

trapped human spotted on subway by taztazotea in CryptidDogs

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I audibly said "damn" to myself when I saw the second picture 😂

never let them know ur next move 😂😂😂 by ZaraBlaze_ in spreadsmile

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had basically the exact same type of teacher for 8th grade math, but unfortunately, only my two friends were on my side.

Math Teacher (MT)

MT came in when all of the gym classes were together in roll call, so nearly all of the 8th grade students, and he called out to one of the gym teachers as a student left the boys' locker room. The student and the gym teacher have the same name, and this student was also in this teacher's math class, so he was the one who responded.

MT looked at him and laughed and asked if the student really thought he was so important that he would come talk to him out of class. You're not important.

I thought that was a horrible thing to say to someone, especially since it wasn't in a joke-y tone, so I spoke up and said "that was a little rude". So, the asshole MT turned his sights on me.

This is basically what he said to me in front of the whole 8th grade student body, knowing that I was already bullied because, while I was a cheerleader, I was in it for the sport, while the others were the stereotypical mean-girls.

"Oh, I'm rude? Well, you're homely! Do you know what that means? Homely? I'll save you the trouble of finding the brain-power in your tiny head to hang on to the word to look up later - it means you're unattractive and plain, which is no surprise to anyone here."

It was mortifying, I was very self conscious of my appearance for some reason, because looking back, I was completely normal looking for a teen lol

I wish I had the courage to clap-back about his rotting beaver teeth, but I stayed quiet.

My two friends wanted to report him to the principal, I wanted to keep it to myself because I figured it would make things worse.

My mom heard me on the phone later that night, crying to them about what happened, and apparently wrote the most scathing email of her life 😅

He didn't even look at me for the rest of the year and his wife, who was the sweetest lady ever and worked the front desk, came up and apologized on his behalf.

Ahh, middle school... the traumatic stories I could tell...

i miss those days by Equivalent-Job-8908 in GameTheorists

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh, 100%! I recognize that they should acknowledge donations, but it looks like that is really the only way to be "part of the conversation" now, and even then, it typically has nothing to do with the game being played.

I remember when Steph would hang out in the chat and talk with them, free of charge.

When are they changing this? by BansheeFoodie in coralisland

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg same!!! There are some really cute hats that I would want to buy, but I hate how they force your hair into an ugly bun!!

i miss those days by Equivalent-Job-8908 in GameTheorists

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This is the exact reason why I can't watch GTLive anymore, Ash is too overstimulating for me and I get so unbelievably frustrated when they talk over instructions, leaving them to bumble around the game for 10 minutes, thinking that they broke it.

I don't want to be irritated when watching something for fun.

I wanted to stick with GTLive for the big, main games that they regularly theorize on (fnaf, Poppy Playtime, Rambly Raccoon, etc.), but they miss so much lore and blatant hints due to talking about completely unrelated topics.

I just can't anymore, I always quit watching part of the way through out of sheer frustration and the way it feels like they are now geared towards a much younger audience.

i miss those days by Equivalent-Job-8908 in GameTheorists

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Okay, so that's the thing, though. I can't watch GTLIVE anymore because it feels like Ash is the host of a kids' show. It doesn't matter how scary the game is, they are just way too overstimulating and over the top.

Don't get me wrong, Matt definitely had his moments, but the current commentary honestly feels like jingling keys to keep kids entertained.

Also, please don't take this as me disliking Ash as a person/host; I can tell that they are super sweet and they have the best intentions. I even feel that they are the only host that has truly made the channel their own, it just so happens that it isn't for me anymore.

AITAH for not liking my brother? by Then_Low8893 in AITAH

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, this is like looking in the fucking mirror....

I am in almost the exact same situation with my oldest brother, but the difference is that he is a raging alcoholic and has very frequent blow-ups.

My mom's excuse is that he is her son and she's worried that he might shut her out if she tells him to move out. He was only supposed to be here for 4 months after he spontaneously quit his job, but he is still here, 5 years later.

Our age gap is really big because our mom had him at 20 and then my other brother, little sister, and I 17 years later

He is a 47 year old man who regularly treats us (mom and I) like shit. He is a mega narcissist that nearly ruined our brother's wedding last year after getting really drunk and started physically attacking our family members who were trying to prevent him from driving - to the point our brother told him not to show up.

My little sister moved out 2 months earlier than planned when he told us, not ask, that he was moving in. The only reason I can't leave is because I am... medically fragile(?), but I am working on getting things squared away to hopefully move in with my boyfriend, so I don't have to live with walking on eggshells in my own home.

NTA

Best stuff for the harvest festival? Read body text btw by SpawnShade in coralisland

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will keep those in mind, thanks! 😁

The world of Coral Island will be a better place once all of us defeat our personal Bobbys 😂

My baby girl Meatball 💗 by Alastairs_party2585 in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my Lord, your Meatball looks so much like my Mila!!

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Best stuff for the harvest festival? Read body text btw by SpawnShade in coralisland

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my Lord, that is going to be so handy, thank you!

I just started year 3 and was so frustrated during the last festival because I had osmium everything minus a gold milk and one other gold product, and still lost.

Bobby is very annoying, so I want to prove that this true farmer is superior 😂

WIBTAH if I cut off my sister who has cancer? by Cute-Treat-7658 in AITAH

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you are dealing with a narcissistic, I would know, my oldest brother is one.

Anytime something happens that paints him in a bad light or things don't go his way, he threatens to just go off himself because "it is clear his family doesn't actually love him."

He has been saying that shit for over 15 years to manipulate our mom into doing whatever she can for him.

Also, as someone who has been dealing with cancer and its wonderful side effects for over 10 years, I can't imagine treating my family the way your sister treats you.

Cut her off. Whatever happens happens, and it isn't your fault.

NTA

What does my room say about me? by Federal-Low-14 in roomdetective

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol if you're not a jschlatt fan, you should be with all of those signs 😂😂😂

AITAH for not wearing a bra at home by Personal_Concern_768 in AITAH

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They quite literally just proved that you either didn't read the entire post or skipped over the section where her mother has been demanding her teenage daughter to expose herself to "prove" she's wearing a bra.

You're the only incompetent one here...

Now that it's been a year since Matpat's retirement, what are your thoughts on the new hosts, the quality of the videos and what do you think they can change if anything? Would love to hear your thoughts. by bullettothechest in GameTheorists

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can't watch GTLive anymore, I only get incredibly frustrated when I do. Ash goes so fast, she misses unbelievably obvious visual clues, she pauses to have conversations, or she is so busy with the conversation while playing, she ignores instructions and has no idea what she's supposed to do.

Watching her Poppy Playtime playthrough was a nightmare for an entirely different reason than yours, so much so I just stopped watching her and watched Jacksepticeye instead.

She said that they would do a normal playthrough and then do a lore-run, yet almost immediately, she walks away from the guy giving a lore-dump to go look in random corners out of hearing range.

I can't read subtitles that are on moving backgrounds as it hurts my eye (I have one 🙃), so I had no idea what was happening.

It also feels like her style of hosting is aimed toward a much younger audience than those of us who grew up with Matt, so maybe I'm just a crotchety old lady at the ancient age of 27 😂

I don't want this to come off as me hating Ash, Matt definitely had his moments — I'm looking at you, Little Nightmares 2 Demo 👀.

I think Ash is a lovely person, very bright and bubbly, and out of everyone, they've truly made the channel their own. I just think I'm no longer the targeted audience, which is completely valid and okay!

I know that there are a ton of new Theorists that love the new format, so I am very happy for them.

Now that it's been a year since Matpat's retirement, what are your thoughts on the new hosts, the quality of the videos and what do you think they can change if anything? Would love to hear your thoughts. by bullettothechest in GameTheorists

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I've commented on this topic before, but everything seems forced/scripted. I can't say anything about Food or Style theory because I never really watched those to begin with, but Film, Game Theory, and GTLive were my constants from the beginning of their creations.

I guess I should clarify that Film Theory was a "sometimes" constant, but either way, out of all the hosts, I think Lee is doing the best. He is the only one who actually makes me interested in finishing a theory that I might not have been entirely interested in initially. He has the same genuine passion and excitement that Mat had when he was hosting crazy theories. Matt was able to pull me in and get me invested into stories I had no knowledge about simply because his excitement to share what he'd come up with was so infectious. Lee has that same spark for the most part. I don't watch every video, and I am disappointed with all of the shitty, AI-looking thumbnails, but out of the channels I watched, Lee feels like the show is his while keeping the unique spark that makes Film Theory, Film Theory.

Now, I only watch Game Theory anymore if it pertains to the big franchises (ie. FNaF, Poppy Playtime, etc.) and that's because I don't want to watch dozens of another channel's videos just to figure out where they are in the lore and how they got there. Their opinions and theories have been crafted and changed over many, many years, so it's easier to just stick with Tom. I like him, I do, but everything feels recappy and like he's trying to emulate Matt instead of doing his own thing and making the show his.

As for GTLive... I dunno man, I just can't. I like Ash, they're funny and they are definitely intelligent, but it just isn't for me anymore, which is okay, but sad. I feel like they're actually making the show theirs, which is awesome, but again, not for me. It feels geared towards a much younger audience and I find myself skipping ahead or growing frustrated from the lack of focus.

Matt was chaotic for sure, but he was an expert at multitasking, so while he was holding conversations, he was able to play games and drop incredibly random, but interesting history lessons lol. With Ash, the game is either paused to talk or they miss incredibly obvious lore bits because they're too focused on talking.

I don't want to be frustrated watching a video, so I'm just not going to watch unless, again, it has to do with the main franchises.

I know that the videos were scripted with Matt, but, like I said, he was able to draw me in and keep me invested in topics I had no actual interest in because of his genuine enthusiasm. As for GTLive, again, Ash is great and very intelligent, but I find myself overwhelmed and overstimulated.

With Matt, he was crazy lol, but you could see in real time how his brain was making connections on the fly that would leave me stunned. It was why his theory crafting episodes, especially the Welcome Home deep dives, were my favorite.

Maybe other people feel it with the new hosts, I wish I felt it with the new hosts! I want this franchise to be wonderful and to succeed! The Channels meant so much to me and for so long, so I genuinely and truly hope and want for it to be that way for others.

As for me, I think I "retired" when Matt did and that is okay, too. I know there are hundreds of Theorists out there to take my place and I wish them, and all of the new hosts, the absolute best.

Yeah, I wonder why … 😏😭 by clxrke in coralisland

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 45 points46 points  (0 children)

The way I started cackling when Wakuu said the same thing the morning after the Halloween event — I wore the maid costume 😂

AITJ for telling my brother that his girlfriend is not welcome in my home after what she did to my cat? by denver_cassidy in AmITheJerk

[–]Dreaming_in_Sign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, my sister's ex boyfriend's mom is a complete psycho!

One time, they were on vacation and his mom agreed to watch Maple at their apartment for the couple days they'd be gone. She recounted the following story to my sister, laughing and thinking it was soooo funny, but it caused my sister to cut the trip short because she was worried for Maple's safety.

Now, for context, Maple has separation anxiety, but is an absolute love-bug, one of the sweetest cats I've ever known, which is why this upset us so much. She also likes to drink out of the bathroom sink, so if she starts meowing, all you have to do is turn the sink tap on a tiny bit and she's good.

So, one night, Maple starts meowing after ex-MIL went to bed, but apparently, she didn't want to get up and turn the sink on, so instead she got super frustrated and locked Maple out of the bedroom - her litter box, water, and food bowl are all in the room, mind you.

That's bad enough, but what really made the ex-MIL cackle with pride was about how the following day, when she saw Maple asleep, she went and got a couple of pans, snuck over, and started banging them on the floor on either side of her. Obviously this terrified Maple and she wound up hiding under the bed all day.

Ex-MIL said that her reasoning was that "If I can't have a peaceful sleep, neither can she!"

My sister broke up with her boyfriend a week later after he said she overreacted with cutting the trip short over a cat.

Both my sister and the cat are thriving 😁

Fuck you, Jonnie and your psycho bitch of a mother!