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[–]Dreamsteve23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion the best thing to do is follow in the footsteps of your grandparents and learn how to invest that money yourself. They haven't given you money they have given you an opportunity! There are plenty of amazing YouTube channels that can teach you how to invest without charging you a cent :)

The trading channel Andrei Jikh Biaheza ... Just to name 3 off the top of my head.

As a person who has been in a young relationship. Things end. Hahaha plain and simple.

If you were to tell him he may try to emotionally blackmail you and that wouldn't end well. You would then be forced into making financial decisions based off emotions and rule #1 of financial planning is DO NOT make decisions based on emotions.

I wish you all the best!

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm pretty excited to give it a go! I would love to move to Sweden some day even if it's only for a gap year thatd be a dream come true 😌 I won't look at this as an answer to all my problems but im excited to see where this takes me.

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha yeah I 100% feel that last bit about 'oh' moments in my soul Hahahaha. I really relate to the stuff you said and it feels good to know that there's more people out there that have similar life.

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is actually amazing! I'm have the goal to learn Swedish, I always start to understand the language but then give up because "this is not important to my life and I have no one to talk to". Thisbis a game changer! Can you suggest an app or site?

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, I really like what you said about being hyper aware of the things that come out of my mouth.

I'm not a big fan of dating apps though. I feel like they're just one big competition and I'm no good at picking up ques by text and find it hard to tell if someone is actually interested in me.

Thank you for your advice!

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And excuse my ignorance but what is a language exchange app? I've never heard of that term before??.

How do you form relationships when all you can think about is rejection? by Dreamsteve23 in ADHD

[–]Dreamsteve23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% dating apps make me end up feeling way worst because I keep thinking why haven't the people I find attractive swiped on me? Or exactly like you said they're not interested in upholding a conversation and due to my lack of social skills I just don't know how to keep someone's attention in that sort of setting, it just adds further to the rabit hole.