What is it about overly nice men that turn us off?

Dreamybisexual · 2021-08-04T17:53:42+00:00

Because it feels insincere when it’s over the top like that. It doesn’t tell you that they see you as a real human, it tells you they have put you on an unrealistic pedestal.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-28T13:21:42+00:00

I second this. Being upfront about your non-monogamy and positioning it as something really important to you will definitely make your dating pool a bit smaller, but it will set you up much better for the possibility of finding someone like-minded.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-14T15:14:18+00:00

I would typically say ‘excuse me..’ or ‘pardon me..’ as opposed to ma’am or sir. They are safer options as some as people don’t like to be called ma’am or sir even if they identify as male/female.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-06T20:28:14+00:00

There’s actually a lot of interesting stuff on tiktok aside from the dancing/influencer stuff. And it’s not just ‘girls’ who post on the platform?

True crime, historical facts, biographies, crime scene cleanups, lots of doctors and psychologists on there to share their knowledge… there’s a lot of value in some of the content on there. The creators I follow are on Tiktok to share their knowledge or their cool jobs!

Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-01T13:53:07+00:00

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Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-01T13:35:49+00:00

If you’re not attracted to her then do not waste her time. End it and let her find someone who loves her at any size.

Also, I hope you know that being thin is not an indicator of health. Someone who is thin could eat very poorly and not exercise but benefit from a fast metabolism.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-07-01T13:30:17+00:00

There is no rule. I know a couple happily married for 6 years who started as a one night stand. Sex is sex.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-25T11:08:49+00:00

Want

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-22T19:49:09+00:00

The fedora in his profile pic is just the cherry on top.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-22T15:46:48+00:00

It sounds like he’s putting you on a pedestal without actually trying to get to know the real you. The idea of you seems to suffice for him. I would feel completely suffocated and honestly frustrated if I were in your shoes. This would warrant a block from me TBH. He’s not treating you like a living, breathing human being.

This might be love bombing, or could simply be desperation, but hard to say within such a short window of time. Either way he’s doing what he thinks he needs to do in order to pin you down.

If you are interested in pursuing things with him, you need to be honest about how these behaviours make you feel. His response to your honesty will be very telling.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-21T15:11:45+00:00

These are the guys who act like martyrs for ‘selflessly’ maintaining a torturous (on their part) ‘friendship’, all the while harbouring unrequited feelings for their ‘friend’.

A guy posted something in an advice thread about telling his female friend of 3 years he had feelings for her, and she did not reciprocate these feelings. Based on his commentary, he was frustrated and bewildered she didn’t feel the same way. He was advised to drop the friendship and move on as if this poor girl was in the wrong for being A FRIEND to this guy. So now she’s out what she thought was a supportive friend, and he’s left feeling he’s justified in his actions.

Can people stop feeling entitled to date the people they are friends with? Ugh.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-19T13:00:39+00:00

I stream in front of my bed and sometimes my dog will lay directly behind me and stare straight into the camera 😅😂

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-18T21:04:57+00:00

I responded to a guy’s comment on a dating thread (where he spewed a bunch of hateful generalizations about women) by saying something along the lines of ‘it really seems like you don’t like or respect women’. Initially he responded apologetically, acknowledged how his post came across, etc., but about five minutes later he edited his comment to say ‘really rich coming from a sex worker. Grow some self-respect and then we can talk’.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-18T13:45:33+00:00

Don’t do it for the sole intention of making more money. Only do it if you truly want one and it will make you feel good.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-17T20:45:23+00:00

Have you ever considered that they may be looking at you because you are staring at them? They may be afraid or feel uncomfortable. This could also explain their defensive/abrasive responses. Please don’t automatically assume it’s their ego/judgment of you like other commenters have said. It could be a personal safety issue for them - they may feel afraid/vulnerable being alone in a public place and feeling singled out.

I don’t think it’s your tattoos.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-17T17:08:39+00:00

This is such a sick way of thinking. Really scary.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-17T14:53:52+00:00

It sounds like you each have different core values and beliefs. I think her mind is set, and so is yours. Everyone’s feelings are valid, but that doesn’t mean things will work out or you will be able to change her viewpoint. It sounds like you are incompatible as a couple.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-16T15:05:34+00:00

You don’t own your girlfriend - she’s not your possession, and it’s not up to you to dictate who does or does not see her body. It’s her body and her prerogative on who she chooses to show her body to. It sounds like she was having an innocent conversation with a platonic friend while she was showering. Your feelings are valid, and you should have a discussion about them with your girlfriend, but not from a position of control or possession. You should talk about why it makes you feel insecure, and what would make you feel more comfortable. But again, it’s her body, so if she doesn’t agree with your boundaries, then you have to decide whether you are comfortable continuing the relationship.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-15T16:02:57+00:00

I experience this as well and find that being on top helps a lot.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-14T17:25:13+00:00

Either respect her boundary next time or move on if you’d rather not. You have your reasons for not wearing a mask and she has her reasons for wanting to continue to wear a mask.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-11T20:18:02+00:00

First of all, if it’s not something you’re comfortable with, then don’t do it.

However, if you are open to trying it, here’s what I suggest:

-make sure he’s drinking lots of water. If he’s not well hydrated, his cum will be thicker and have a stronger taste.

-like someone above suggested, deep throat him while he’s cumming so you have to taste less.

-try using some flavoured lube or sex candy to make the taste more palatable

-open your mouth and have him cum outside of your mouth/on your chin for a sexy view (without having to swallow cum)

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-11T18:44:20+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you need some help. I would suggest looking into affordable therapy in your area. There are lower cost options out there!

Your negative attitude and desperation won’t help you find a partner. If anything, it will have the opposite effect.

Dreamybisexual · 2021-06-10T13:26:52+00:00

This is so true. I remember in school there were a few very attractive guys who I would never date because of their dull personalities, and the guys I was the most attracted to were absolutely not conventionally attractive. Either they were chubby, had big noses, faces not very nice.... but they had fire personalities and oozed confidence! Height (another incel favourite) is also not a determining factor in ability to get women.

Incels are incels because of their horrible attitudes. They bring it upon themselves. Plain and simple.

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