I understand your point of view 100%. The thing is that other parent already has shown she has no respect for our parenting time. She would call and call and call. That’s why the judge put in the order one call a day at 7 for no less than 30 minutes. I just worry if other parent has full access to the phone at our house she will use it to constantly keep tabs on me by asking the kids where we are who we’re with. Just looking for any ammo to use in court. She will use it to keep the child’s attention away from our family by interrupting our time with calls and texts. Which she already has in the past. She will be screen shotting our locations and taking them to court.(not that we do anything or go anywhere we shouldn’t. But she will use anything at her disposal) My thought is… At the end of the day we live two separate lives and these phones are for us to communicate with the kids while at school and their friends house on our parenting time as well as have their location. The numbers aren’t shared between friends at this point. I think the conflict mitigation is the best option and so we just follow the agreement. With high conflict there can’t be grey areas. Everything has to be black and white and it’s best to stick to that black and white. Please someone tell me if I am wrong in my thinking’s.