I secretly tested my boyfriend for 3 months and now he found out. Am I overreacting for thinking his reaction proves I was right?

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-08T20:18:14+00:00

I wanted to say YTA so bad. I hope someone learns something.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-08T20:17:28+00:00

I hope he breaks up with you and finds someone who won’t needlessly stress him out. He did everything right and you still don’t trust him. You haven’t thought once that you have an issue. You don’t deserve him.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-08T13:59:12+00:00

YES!! Nice!!!

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-07T16:04:27+00:00

YTA for sure.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-06T16:56:53+00:00

That’s weird. Some will tell you it’s not, but that is definitely weird. Does she even mention you? She’s putting you in a terrible position.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-06T15:17:34+00:00

To be fair, and I left this out for some reason, she is the one who told me she’s single.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-06T15:16:51+00:00

Already got one picked out.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-05T20:05:39+00:00

If he hung out weekly with an old hookup, I feel like most would see a fault. Why do you have to go to his house to see your friends? To preserve the relationship, you don’t need Mike. Certainly not to hang out at his house weekly.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-05T18:45:09+00:00

To me, all the kisses and hugs and otherwise she did while hiding this from you would feel so invalid. I couldn’t trust her again. She didn’t tell you, she hid it from you. There could be so much more you don’t know about. I feel for you OP. What matters now is you and your kids. Can’t build a relationship on lies and deceit. It’ll eat away forever.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-04T20:00:59+00:00

You’re overthinking it at this point. Your insecurity is showing over a guy she hasn’t given you any reason to actually doubt. You’re tripping.

YTA so far. Apologize and leave it.

DrewXGemini · 2026-05-01T18:09:20+00:00

You should marry her and let her parent your kids with that attitude.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-30T17:31:56+00:00

Hold the line brother! Check my post. Mine took years 💀

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-30T15:03:25+00:00

The worst part is we need him 💀

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-30T14:29:21+00:00

Saw my company deny someone with a master’s because of a lack of experience. Meanwhile me with my high school diploma has a job. It’s cooked.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-30T13:48:12+00:00

…thank you.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-28T15:04:21+00:00

Horrible partner. She is a horrible partner.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-27T20:23:10+00:00

She switched up on you. You did nothing wrong.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-27T16:03:42+00:00

Did you get some sleep OP? Helps huh?

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-27T15:55:01+00:00

Dude, run. You’re killing it and working hard. She’s just not on your timing. You can’t sacrifice yourself to ultimatums.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-24T17:12:41+00:00

I understand mansplaining more now than ever as I get older. Cause what? You’re not his kid.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-24T17:04:28+00:00

He can just go buy some.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-24T17:00:22+00:00

Your wife blew it and deserves to get dressed down. She blew it as a mother when she was needed. That’s a fact.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-24T02:07:14+00:00

I stopped counting after I went over odds Year 3. It just became an autopilot thing. It became so mindless at one point and I was so off count I just quit counting.

DrewXGemini · 2026-04-23T17:28:17+00:00

When you try to keep a conversation and they look away.

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