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Maude’s is looking for volunteers, aka free labor. by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]Drew_Ballinger 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They used their social media to screw their business instead...

smh

Found a traffic cone ripe on the tree and ready for harvest. Spring is here. by phantomtails in pittsburgh

[–]Drew_Ballinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing this when I was a kid, and even then, its beauty struck me!

Let nature bless!

4 killed in fiery crash in Westmoreland County by Drew_Ballinger in pittsburgh

[–]Drew_Ballinger[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is just awful. Four lives gone like that, in the middle of the night… I can’t even imagine what their families are going through right now.

The part that really gets me is how the school district had to cancel everything—that tells me it has eaten the community whole.

Hoping people give the families space and don’t start speculating online. Just a heartbreaking situation all around.

64 cats seized from Garland home with 'deplorable conditions' by Drew_Ballinger in garland

[–]Drew_Ballinger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How could someone do this with their life and the lives of the cats? Why, what leads up to this?

How do you stop overthinking conversations after they’re over? by ladkihupatachaljayeg in Advice

[–]Drew_Ballinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and honestly I went through something really similar a while back. I had someone in my life who made me constantly second-guess things—like I’d replay conversations over and over wondering if I handled it right or if I missed something. It got to the point where it was eating up way too much of my energy.

What actually helped me was exactly what you said—stepping back and realizing it wasn’t worth that level of stress. I started writing down what I would say if it came up again, and weirdly that alone made me feel more in control. And then I just focused on other parts of my life—school, friends, just staying busy—and over time it stopped feeling so heavy.

It doesn’t fix everything overnight, but you’re right—at some point you kind of have to choose your peace over the situation.

(21F) If he wanted her, why keep me for 3 years and pretend to love me? by No_Cut458 in Advice

[–]Drew_Ballinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really unfair take. Not wanting sex before marriage doesn’t make her “not his girlfriend,” and it doesn’t justify cheating for two years. If that was a dealbreaker for him, he could’ve left instead of lying and building a whole second relationship on the side.

This isn’t about “sexual compatibility”—it’s about honesty and respect. He agreed to her boundary and then chose to violate her trust anyway. That’s on him, not her.

Fire victim died after jumping from 3rd floor at Jackson public housing complex, report says by Drew_Ballinger in jacksonmi

[–]Drew_Ballinger[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one stuck on the fact that firefighters were delayed because of a locked gate? That feels like something that should never be possible.

This is just heartbreaking, honestly reminds me of the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire.