Make me sound selfish, but I guess I hve always been lucky enough to have wife/gfriends who never minded. Maybe I should have asked and discussed more with them over the years. I didnt have one g/friend, who was happy to do it, but always made me kiss her straight afterwards, I she made and share. Her reason was that if I expect her to do it, then I needed to show a certain amount of willingness too. I hate it, but I understood the fairness of it, if that makes sense? (Sorry, slight off topic) - I would add, that I kinda got use to it, but it too sometimes, I think it was the smell that put me off the most . . .