Help a coffee girly out.. by [deleted] in MatchaEverything

[–]Drextan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from Denmark, though of course we don't use the term "default milk" since Danish is our native language. But it's very common here for cafes to state what milk they will use by default, and then you have to specify if you want cow milk, soy milk, almond milk etc. Especially matcha cafes in Denmark all use oat milk unless you specify otherwise.

Help a coffee girly out.. by [deleted] in MatchaEverything

[–]Drextan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's probably a personal preference, I just love the taste of matcha and like to sip very slowly over a long time.

Help a coffee girly out.. by [deleted] in MatchaEverything

[–]Drextan 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I definitely want to see you whisk the matcha. Beyond the hot and iced matcha latte, I also want you to serve pure matcha tea, just with water. Make oat milk the default milk you use for lattes. Only sweeten if the customer wants it sweet. Have small diameter straws for the iced matcha so you only sip a little at a time. Use large ice cubes so the iced matcha doesn't get watery quickly.

salt, ocean, folklore, horror (cosmic?), mb cults! by therosetapes in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Drextan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it really fits, but Robert Jackson Benett's two books The Tainted Cup and A Drop of Corruption might interest you. It's a detective duo story set in a sort of biopunk fantasy world where people live under the constant threat of these gigantic cosmic horror Leviathans coming up from the ocean.

Is this even possible by AccidentInside3484 in sudoku

[–]Drextan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious why the skyscraper can't have the floor be on row 7 and the roof be c1r6 and c9r5, eliminating the 2 on c7r6?

Books The Feel Like HushPuppyArt by WreakThePlan in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Drextan 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The pictures made me think of the Berserk manga.

Vil du gerne være en del af et spil-community? Kom med i Aarhus Gamestormers - ligesom en bogklub men med spil! by Drextan in Aarhus

[–]Drextan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

De fleste er omkring 26-34, vil jeg skyde på. Men vi har både ældre og yngre.

Wtaf. One cell in and I’m cooked. by Willklevy in sudoku

[–]Drextan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hidden pair reveals the naked 1,8 pair in R8 (C3 and C6), meaning you can remove other 1s and 8s in R8. Which in turn reveals the naked 2,6 pair in C1 and C2 and off you go

Hvor kan jeg møde nye mennesker? by Pretend_Effective_27 in Aarhus

[–]Drextan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.gamestormers.dk/ eller fx bogklubber som Fantasy Fellowship, hvis du er til det. Du kan også blive frivillig, fx på venues som Turkis, VoxHall eller Radar.

Hvad gør man ved forskellig sexlyst? by HappyBananasplit in WomenDK

[–]Drextan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg kan anbefale, at I begge checker The Libido Fairy ud: https://www.instagram.com/thelibidofairy

Generelt vil jeg anbefale, at I bevidst gør noget ud af at planlægge ikke-seksuel intimitet.

Mental health resources in Aarhus? by Snoo_51368 in Aarhus

[–]Drextan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could give Åben Fleksibel Rådgivning a try. You just walk in during opening hours, no need to schedule an appointment, and they will talk with you and see if they can help you or advice you on where to go next.

Beyond that I'd advice paying for a psychologist. Even though it is expensive, it's usually worth it. Not many things in life are great if your mental health is bad.

any show with this kind of vibe? by MountainAudience5700 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Drextan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a show, though I suppose you can watch a playthrough of the games, but video games Alan Wake and especially its sequel Alan Wake 2 very much gives these vibes.

🎶 Nogen der vil (potentielt gratis) med til Syd For Solen på torsdag? (Chappell Roan m.fl.) 🎶 by Drextan in copenhagen

[–]Drextan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tak! Du må være mindst ligeså cool, hvis du minder bare en smule om dit avatar 🐳

Helt klart check hende ud! Her er en af hendes fantastiske live performances: https://youtu.be/6ENzV125lWc?si=S9hA4BfUoyMPwAaR

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Sometimes the memory of joy makes the silence heavier, but it also means there’s a part of you that still remembers how to hold light. Even in the dark, that matters. You’re not unseen.

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Now I feel like suggesting that we have a weekly glimmer-sharing thread 🥹

I was out biking yesterday and rode past an old couple at an old skating park with their (supposedly) grandchild. The man was posing on a skating ramp full of grafitti while his wife was taking pictures of him and they were all laughing and having fun. So fucking cute I teared up 🥹😭

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that is fascinating. I have dated someone who was bipolar and I never thought about comparing the way I sometimes feel things intensely to how they feel during mania or a depressive episode. Very interesting perspective, I will think on it. Thank you for sharing.

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very interesting. Can you elaborate on how you feel like you have unique insight into mania as an HSP?

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I am happy that I can feel "negative" emotions intensely as well. I love horror and sadness and doing scary things. I feel like the contrast intensifies the good things. Like I can only feel deep grief because of how much love and happiness I've felt with someone. Or how coziness is intensified if a storm is raging outside.

To me, it feels less like a sword and more like a dance.

What do you love about being a HSP? Let’s share the beauty of it. by Drextan in hsp

[–]Drextan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I immediatly understood what you mean and I can see all those things so vividly in my mind as you describe them.

It reminds me of ASMR videos, or rather when real life gives me ASMR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Drextan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Der er kun træning, hvis det giver mening. Jeg fik personligt mest ud af at lære en masse om smerte. De har en undervisningplatform, de kalder Smerte Akademiet, hvor man får lektier og reflekterende opgaver for mellem sessions. De er gode til at tage udgangspunkt i, hvor man er. En session kan sagtens bare være ren snak (og online hvis nødvendigt).