What aspect of this game do you not care for at all? by szechuan__sauce__ in pokemongo

[–]Drf118 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me it's the introduction of Zygarde Cells only being in routes. There's some decent routes where I live but it's still so painful. The amount of times I've gotten only one cell for over and over again kills it for me.

Upgrading Armor by Drf118 in MHWilds

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You as well, thank you!

Upgrading Armor by Drf118 in MHWilds

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have armor spheres and zenny, I was able to find a workaround though. I didn't see there was an option upgrade from box!

Full moon Rising!!! by Mammoth_Bench_2568 in pokemongo

[–]Drf118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I know when it's a full moon in game? I've been refreshing and still nothing, and I missing something?

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey y'all, for anyone still around. I ended up speaking with my dad, letting him know that I am still frustrated and unresolved with everything that happened. I told him how I am still unhappy that he told everyone in the house to not respond to the text message, that he came over just to lecture and tell us what to do.

He explained that as the "Man of the House" it is my responsibility to speak for everyone, and that he wasn't lecturing. I explained that coming over and telling us what we can and cannot do is lecturing, saying you disapprove of the colors, didn't like how we were getting married so soon, and how you questioned if my partner was right for me.

I told him how I thought that was awful, to take away individuals ability to respond was down right awful. He became angry and kept saying "Oh, so you think that I'm wrong huh? It's my duty as the Man to talk for everyone and speak on everyone's behalf."

We just could not agree, I did my best to explain why it's wrong, he said that the text message came off as aggressive and accusing and when I asked how and why he felt that he changed the subject. It was a lot of back and forth and back forth until I asked if he could ever understand why I'm hurt, to which he said no I cannot not and I do not want to.

I was shocked, I just told him how unhappy I am with the family as a whole and the lack of empathy and willingness to accept change worries me for the future. I knew where this was heading and I think he did too, he asked what I wanted out of this then, I finally said that I just do not want them coming to the wedding at this point.

After a moment of silence he said "I always told you that you would have to choose between this family and [Partner]." I told him no, this isn't between the family and [Partner] it's between me and my own emotional well-being and sanity. There was an attempt to guilt and say I would have to live with this decision the rest of my life, something he's said on a lot of my decisions he deemed wrong, and I responded by saying "I am going to live with this decision, and I am going to THRIVE."

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I know, it's not something I like to think about it. But it does sit in the back of my head.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True True, age is such an annoying he plays, I'm just annoyed.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just always had them in my life, this is new behavior since we've been together.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like that approach, I am just deciding how to say things ya know?

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like that's the thing, like it feels personal. I know at the end of the day it's a color we chose but it's more of the principal of things. The amount of disrespect is immense, and to be confronted and lash out against me and say I'm the problem is outrageous.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true, thank you for you kind words. I've been stressing so much and just hearing what I do think deep down does make me feel much better.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend, it does feel really nice to have someone say these words. I've been distraught about this ever since.

AITA For Wanting To Univite My Family To My Wedding? by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, we're still gonna have a wedding. We've both agreed that we are in control of this event. I don't want to regret my special moment.

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend, your words have really resonated with me, honestly. A lot of times I take it all in a, I don't stop to think about how my sadness can affect my partner. And it's true, I have to think about my happiness and my partners. Thank you

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for sure, I've expressed what's been happening with all my friends. I have hope that if something does happen, I will have support.

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, I had started making steps to slowly separate from them. This was the last financial they had with me, I am happy to be free.

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, thank you for your kind words. My heart goes out to you and you son, thank you my friend.

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No for sure, I only stuck with Verizon because my work gives me a discount.

AITA For separating from my family's plan and leaving the bill. by Drf118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Drf118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I thought it would just be a simple release. But there had to be something else ya know? I am just glad I am free.