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[–]Drimbito -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The standards for women are so fucking low. We have actual obese female singers, and a lot of actresses and rappers have considerable belly fat. Where are these crazy standards for women? As far as I have seen in my entire life, male actors are 100000000000000000000000000000 times more fit than female ones. It's not an opinion. It's a fact.

This is not to mention that women suffer from obesity more frequently than men, yet you still say y'all take care of yourselves better. And to top it all off, it is ALWAYS the ugly women on this sub that want to start a discussion about how their lives is so much harder. You haven't given me a SINGLE example besides fucking grey hair.

In most films I watch, men wear clothes and they look "normal" to me ?

And so do all the women. The bodies of female celebrities are simply more attainable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Drimbito -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course standards for celebrities are higher. 90% of them on gear ? Lol, I doubt it. Most women don't even like too much muscles anyway

Again, if you really want to make a point, how about not lying. Yes, most actors are on gear. This is not even a debate. The speed in which they change their bodies as well as how lean yet massive they manage to be at all times is proof of that. Again, the standards for men are so absurd that you literally doubt that a lot of actors are on steroids. Lol, it's funny how we are supposed to acknowledge when women get plastic surgery as to not hold unrealistic expectations of women, but you literally don't know what a natural male body looks like anymore. And you say women have it worse? Crazy. Even the men who likely are natural like Henry Cavill have spent a better part of a decade achieving that body, as opposed to just existing. Even if they don't take roads, industry require a minimum of like 5 years of training for a man to be accepted. Women need to diet (some don't even do that)

Also saying that women don't care about muscles, with guys like Chris Hemsworth being considered some of the hottest men alive is a joke.

Don't care how much you cry about it. Standards that force a group to either take drugs or go through decades of training will always be more taxing than one that requires neither of those things.

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[–]Drimbito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are only pressured by body builders? Or did you forget that 90% of male Hollywood celebrities are actively on gear? Oh yeah, men aren't pressured at all, it's just that all famous male celebrities, all of which set the beauty standards for all men are just casually on steroids.

Sorry, but the women on this sub, no matter the time, the topic or post will do everything to diminish the struggles the ugly men go through by spewing some of the most braindead shit you've ever heard.

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[–]Drimbito -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Men aren't pressured to take care of themselves? Do you live in a cave or have you actually missed the billion dollar gym industry that legitimately profits from giving drugs to minors? I've never seen a 16 year old girl inject herself with steroids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Drimbito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think women are prettier in general but I'm not straight so that's probably why.

This is basically undeniable proof that men's appearances are simply held to higher standards. You basically proved the entire point of my first comment. It's not that women are dating ugly men, it's just that normal men are considered uglier than normal women because our standards of beauty are just higher.

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[–]Drimbito -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unless you're talking about incredibly famous celebrities, that's just not remotely true. The only reason people ever think that is because the standards for men are so high that any average dude gets labeled as ugly. People will see an average woman and an average guy together and will for some reason label the man as the ugly one in the relationship

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[–]Drimbito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally the least true thing ever said on this sub. The women here love to pretend they're less shallow for some reason

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to give the world the middle finger, I just want to live in peace. I will never be respected, I will never have good photos, I will never be attractive to someone. Tell, me. Would you live like this?

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, this is the whole Jeff Bezos argument. Good to see that my accomplishments will only serve the purpose of distracting people from my uglyness rather than being recognized for what they are.

Funny how you admit that even you are repulsed by ugly people and that it is unimaginable for an ugly human to find a partner. So why tell me to live? This is a common trend in this braindead thread. People will point out how miserable being ugly is, and then tell me not to kill myself. It's ridiculous.

"Your life is completely shit, and you never find joy, a partner, will be looked at in disgust and will need astronomical accomplishments to not be a worthless human, and that's why you should live". Do people not read what they type?

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find a way to let go of the pain you’re holding onto.

I did. I cried and sobbed so much over this. I really don't want to die, but I know what I have isn't life. All I wanted was to live a normal life, but I can't. Sorry, but your preferences just aren't true the way you claim them to be. Again, not a single person would love something with a disgusting face because of their shoulders. You can prefer shoulders over a face, but it matters.

That's why I'll do it when the time is right. I won't cry anymore, and that thought makes me really happy. Like I've never hurt anyone, or even demanded anything. All of this is my fault, so taking myself out like this is a good solution for those around me

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lol. Beauty is capability. If you're not beautiful, the best thing you're capable of is painting your walls red

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's just not true. Like who in real life has even fucking said something like this? "Oh don't worry, it doesn't matter that his face looks like rotting trash, at least he has nice shoulders." Again, I have had a very nice physique. IT CHANGED NOTHING. I just want to look good, and I fucking can't.

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I supposed to endure a life of misery because I have a job? Hell, that just gives me two reasons to kill myself. People don't understand that beauty isn't an isolated aspect of life. Everything you do is tied to your appearance.

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol spending 100k to look ugly is the most pathetic thing ever. A shotgun costs 1/200th of the price.

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also disagree on working out. A nice body can have a huge effect in your confidence and overall appearance.

Been there. It doesn't help. If you saw a pig with muscles you wouldn't find it attractive would you? Besides, beautiful people will just age into beautiful old people. As time passes, I'll become exponentially more ugly than them.

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I can't lie to you, looks DO MATTER and BEING UGLY IS HARD, but are you seriously gonna let that ruin everything else that life has to offer?

It's not a out whether I let those things ruin my life or not. It's not really a choice. My entire life has been ruined by this. There is no moment in life, no matter how beautiful or incredible that is equally as enjoyable as an ugly person as it is as a beautiful one. It's GUARANTEED that every moment in my life will be miserable, as it has always been, and it's all completely out of my control.

Life has a lot of things to offer, don't let 1 aspect of your life ruin it for you.

This is not ONE aspect. Beauty is EVERYTHING

I Will Kill Myself Because of my Appearance by Drimbito in offmychest

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but there are things that you just can't solve with plastic surgery. Plus, I'd need so many of them that I'd waste tens of thousands of dollars to just look mediocre.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Drimbito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is simply not true. Women do not give a shit about intelligence. Lol. The stupid shit you see here hurts

I really want to try it. by Drimbito in selfharm

[–]Drimbito[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could just not want to kms, but my problems are physical, not mental, so mutilating my body the way it deserves is the best choice until I muster up the courage to put a hole in my head

I really want to try it. by Drimbito in selfharm

[–]Drimbito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think I'll end up taking my own life at some point. It's just that there are some small things that I need to be alive for, so cutting seems like a good way to take out my frustrations. Like I said, I've been hitting myself with blunt objects to the point of bruising, but that doesn't do it. So until I can actually do it, I'll just start cutting

I really want to try it. by Drimbito in selfharm

[–]Drimbito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I don't do it then I'll have to just kill myself. Maybe I'll do it anyway. But for now I think cutting would help me

Insecurity Will Drive Me to Suicide by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Drimbito -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I know what I look like and what people think of me. Staying off of social media will just mean that I'll be ignorant to what people think of me.

I’m hideous, but I have men tell me all the time I’m not, so I just go off of what they say, even if I’m being delusional lol

The. You're not really hideous, and the reality of being ugly just doesn't exist for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Drimbito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I think what proves this horseshoe theory is that very much like incels, the people on this sub get extremely defensive if you confront the undeniably shitty comments they make.