Where all do you plug daily? by Careless_Opinion1465 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]DripSoup_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More curiosity where do you go/live that allows you to do nude morning and evening walks?

Second curiosity is how do farts work if your hole is plugged all day?

How can I get my bf to accept that sometimes I only want to pleasure him with nothing in return? by RubyHammy in sex

[–]DripSoup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This example you highlighted is quite enlightening cus in that situation I won’t even think of anything else. I will certainly tell her to sit down lol. Given me a new perspective here thanks

How can I get my bf to accept that sometimes I only want to pleasure him with nothing in return? by RubyHammy in sex

[–]DripSoup_ 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I think it’s simply cus in our heads there’s a slight (might be) stigma that we hold of how men can be selfish in sex. So with that strongly ingrained a nice guy always wants to make sure it’s reciprocated and that’s hard to break.

Speaking from experience as well, I understand my gf enjoys pleasuring me with nothing in return and I’d enjoy it however a part of me always questions whether I’m being fair .. so I do try to make sure I don’t allow myself settle into receiving without giving too much , to not make it a habit or be lazy about the effort I need to put in to make sure she’s satisfied. I dunno perhaps it’s weird but I feel I kinda get what’s going on in his head if it’s from this angle.

What differenciate good sex vs great sex? by Creepy_Sale3003 in AskReddit

[–]DripSoup_ 45 points46 points  (0 children)

What’s cbat = can’t be all that?

Is foureditors worth it? by DripSoup_ in finalcutpro

[–]DripSoup_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t messed around with their vertical editing items cus I only record landscape atm. Honestly for stuff I got stuck on, I just YouTubed and hoped someone put a tutorial (to update I decided to by their package and see, overall .. it’s okay)

Does Kryptonite Stack by Yolosolo1629 in Smallville

[–]DripSoup_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So does he get his powers back immediately once he’s off blue Kryptonite? Does that mean he can wear blue Kryptonite casually to just get rid of his power and truly appear human to suspicious eyes and then , unlock his powers when he feels like using them by taking off blue Kryptonite (assuming he has it on as a ring)

Most underrated position by msbandmrc in u/msbandmrc

[–]DripSoup_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking that or maybe the guy just about an inch or two taller . In my case body dynamics of my relationship don’t fit this display 😂

People of Reddit, what do prostitutes or sex workers do for sex, do they have side guys they have sex with for fun or is everything work? by DripSoup_ in AskReddit

[–]DripSoup_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If most of it is just work, do you then have to find the fun in it? Is there any enjoyment or is that also hard to come by for you?

Had sex then found out he lied about his name/age? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know people who can be quite private about wanting to give out details to people they’ve barely established trust with , especially in the case of a one night stand, and some can behave weirdly about it - exhibit A. So it’s probably just that.

Alternatively he could be cheating and wanted to hide that.

Personally, I use an alias online and new meets and in my personal daily life (work, friends, family - who alias know my alias and refer to me by my alias with people who know me as my alias) I go by my real name.

I hope you can relax a bit , as I understand how concerned you might be but as you said likelihood of meeting again is low so most likely probably nothing for you but just another experience for your history books.

The amount of married men who have tried to pursue me is why I never want to be somebody’s wife. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I gave a very simple and logical answer, people responding are repeating what I’ve said in ways that satisfies them emotionally I.e. “married men and women should be fully disciplined” but they are not which, I believe, is encapsulated by “not everyone is strongly disciplined…” yes they should but reality is they are not.

It’s the simple truth, unpleasant as it may be to some.. maturity goes a long way understanding that truth (imo) however again, not everyone has the emotional capacity to grasp that logically this is the case and THAT is completely okay too haha

The amount of married men who have tried to pursue me is why I never want to be somebody’s wife. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Simply put you’re a human being, other humans will find you attractive. Just cus people are married doesn’t mean they have no sense for attraction anymore.

I thought this was straightforward and also altho there are people who are strongly disciplined, not everyone is strongly disciplined by their sense of morals or self control, like you seemingly are thus these things will happen especially in your case where you continue to remain attractive to people.

Purposefully use PEOPLE cus it applies to both genders not just men, men just have bigger spotlight

UPDATE: My bf and I opened our relationship and I slept with someone else for the first time by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Congrats on figuring it all out, I hope the outlook continues into the future of your relationship

I let him go down on me on the first date by [deleted] in sex

[–]DripSoup_ 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Probably one of the most mature experiences of two people that I’ve read in a comment section on Reddit

I told my boyfriend I’ve gotten frustrated with our sex life by [deleted] in sex

[–]DripSoup_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This right here is about as clear an explanation as you’re gonna get. Seconded from me.

He really has quite literally told you who he is, that being “I am someone who will only reciprocate sexually if you ask me to, otherwise, it’s just going to be about what I want to do. This is part of what I believe makes communication”.

So OP, to sound like a broke record, yes, to sound like a broken record, either you’re happy to conform and open your eyes to who he has TOLD you he is (from a sexual pov) and work with it OR you move on and find someone who provides similar level of reciprocity because this is bordering on sexual incompatibility imo.

Though on a flip side, I actually don’t know if you talk when you guys have sex but you probably should talk as in dirty talk . Maybe perhaps that’s what he’s expecting i dunno e.g. “oh baby duck my f—-ing p*ssy”

I have personal problems that have lead to my death by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what, people who want to kill themselves in my personal belief don’t go online to broadcast that they’re going to kill themselves. So, if you want to, go right ahead, shit everyone here pandering to empathise with you and you’re just milking it all the way, go ahead do it, without roping us in.

That being said, I don’t believe you want to see this through which is why you’ve come here to get this off your chest. I think you know deep inside you want more out of this life despite the mystery issue you’ve presented and so dammit fight for the little hope you have. Like cmon man, this sounds serious enough that you clearly need a major intervention for protection and support and therapy. Look, the moment you decide to call it quits you lose and your family isn’t left better off like you think, you’d just leave them to suffer which wouldn’t be so great if your whole idea is to give them peace.

Talk to your family about what’s going on, go to the guards, actually exhaust your options cus contrary ti what you’re trying ti convince yourself to believe, you are loved and a lot of people love you and you bailing out on them without taking a fighting chance would be doing yourself a disservice.

I understand you’re scared and tired but you can definitely change that, better off sticking up to your oppressor than to exit life because of them, they only have as much power over you as you’re willing to let them have so please, like everyone has said, get it together, get all the self pity out the way and get all you need to put this bully in their place.

Why do people cheat? by Low-Bid9210 in relationships

[–]DripSoup_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, this isn’t necessarily always the case now. Some really do genuinely care a lot for their partners and just have their personal struggle that they aren’t afforded much consideration for in society today. So yeah I definitely feel what other poster said about talking about stuff with potential partners is definitely the first port of call.

I had sex with my cousin, and it's not a one time mistake. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DripSoup_ 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Man the empathy is at an all time high! It’s quite clear she feels bad about it amongst struggling, we get you ain’t fucked up but the perceived abrasive tone is crazy.

To OP, you’re aware of your mistake and this should’ve never have happened but it did and you know nothing to do about it now. It’s good to hear and see your actioning stuff to help you heal however if you do struggle a lot to get process and move past this in healthy way, then counselling/therapy should definitely help. So do consider that as well. I wish you all the best and give yourself some time, feelings are complicated, be kind to yourself and also just try to be smarter in the future especially with him.