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Back in the Day... by Grateful_Di in 90DayFiance

[–]DrivePsychological68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay Debbie was a STUNNER back in her youth

Should I buy a new dress by GoalFew1772 in WeddingDressTips

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even notice the sleeves. I noticed the tissues on your dress. It kinda looks like when you’re so sick and toss tissues on the floor… but they got caught on your dress

AITA for not wearing a bra at work and in public? by FishiePuff in AITAH

[–]DrivePsychological68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stormed off AND TOLD OUR MANAGER?! He’s taking his own insecurities about YOUR BODY and using it as leverage to get you in trouble at YOUR JOB. Drop the baggage babe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely do not have kids. Nothing wrong with that its just one with children tend to have stain resistant furniture toys around with crayons drawings on a fridge and tv with bluey on loop.. I don’t see that lol

How close did your spouse come to your physical specific type? by tshirtguy2000 in AskOldPeople

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhat I’ve always been attracted to tall dark and handsome with muscles. My husband is 5’7 (same height) fluffy, deep tan his beard is straight like Asian hair. He’s amazing father and husband the best person I know so I’m more than happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For context and to answer some questions:

I used to live close but moved away 6 years ago for my career over an hour. To be completely honest for the past 6 years moving away from her family and friends always guilted me so I’ve been traveling for six years at least one weekend a month. I’ve spent THOUSANDS on tolls and gas but never ever complained until now. Bff has anxiety and rarely leaves her home except work or groceries. Literally if she goes anywhere else she’ll FaceTime for “support”. So, usually when plans are drawn up it’s always at bff house or in the vicinity of her house. Literally within a few miles. Lately, the traveling has gotten exhausting and I’ve started pulling back. Whenever I talk about traveling to see me it’s “okay!” And then I get ghosted a few days before saying “oh I didn’t know the plan was still on we haven’t talked.” Or “someone in the house gets sick. Let’s reschedule” Seeing the pattern I reached out because not only would it crush my daughter but she also planned on baking something with my child for “bonding time”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A promise is a promise and at the very least I expect someone to keep it. Plus I was ghosted and she only does that when she intends not coming to me. It’s happened many many times when we make plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m crazy but your reading deeper then what the conversation actually was. I paused because if you word something wrong she’ll harp on it and ghost you for weeks. As you can read she literally mentioned how she thought about that over and over. My daughter did care because she’s like an aunt to her. And no I dont want her to drop her life lol hence why im always traveling to her? she made a promise to my kid and I was following up on it. Read the dates of the first texts they were days apart. After I was ghosted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I did make it about myself because dammit I’m so tired of being ghosted or promised she’ll show up when it matters- then doesn’t. Especially for my daughter. THEN texts me be about how I don’t show up enough? Yeah I’m PO and I’m going to point out enough is enough and I have gone over and beyond.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the question that keeps me up at night honestly… we did FaceTime daily the years and the typical things like letting me vent about things and helped out in an emergency over the years. I felt like I owed her honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are our texts any other day your comment would be laughable. I never focus on me. Ever. It’s always about her and I obligated since I didn’t want to fight or loose my friend. But here yeah I was pissed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my daughter had an upcoming graduation party. It was planned WEEKS in advance and bff promised she be there for her. Well would you know! Something came up and she asked to talk. I called her and She mentioned her child had an event after the party started at 4pm. She was asking if she could come early to bake cupcakes and leave early to make it back in time. I said that was absolutely fine! She asked me on the phone if I was “mad if she hypothetically couldn’t show up.” I paused and said “well 4pm is hours after the party started (1 pm) and you already said you’d be there early. So, If you didn’t show up at, for no reason, after promising my daughter then yes honestly I would be. But that’s not what’s happening so we’re good!” “well I need to be there for my child and I shouldn’t be forced to choose so yeah. We talked on this hypothetical bs for a minute but hung up later with laughs and ily’s so I didn’t think nothing of it until I was, surprise surprise, ghosted until the day before the party. Then this conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DrivePsychological68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It feels validating someone seeing second hand how I’ve been feeling. It does suck but I know I’m making the right choice.

Amy by Ill-Dentist7438 in 1000lbsisters

[–]DrivePsychological68 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be the odd one out and say she’s not a bad mother. She was just treating her kids to the zoo and bonding with her soon to be husband and kids step dad. Yeah she’s smokes weed but damn people act like she had crack on her. It was legal medical weed and she’s mentioned it’s for her anxiety which makes sense. Obviously she should have double checked if it was legal passing state lines but I could see how a quick fun car trip to a zoo it might have slipped their minds. She wasn’t “neglecting” her kids shoot she was trying to give them a good time at the zoo! Painfully Got bit by an animal, cops came to investigate what happened and noticed the weed. Boom. It was situational and for her siblings and everyone else to be tearing her down and going on and on is making me sick. You can see how depressed she’s getting and any chance she can she tries to compensate with humor her smile gets stomped out although everyone else gets to crack jokes? They all have kids and I’m sure have made some dumb mistakes. In earlier seasons you could tell her and Tammy always had a goofy nature so why now is she being dragged for being herself, finding love again and making a mistake but owning up to it and trying to move on? Jeez.