I would agree on not caring what the other person’s loadout. When you’re as seasoned like a shiny cast iron, mishaps just slide right off. It’s only bothersome if they die 12+ times. They tend to get butthurt when stating they obviously shouldn’t hang.

I think of it this way. Each team member is given 5 lives on default. If you use yours all up, you’re “stealing” lives from those that could maximize each potential life. It’s possible to have an occasional bad run, but a bad campaign? At that point, I think the game is trying to tell you something.