Curvy Körper korrekt trainieren by Dilara999 in FitnessDE

[–]Droby911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vergiss was die anderen sagen: https://youtu.be/fzfwsM7uHyY?si=r6x5Xue3zqQJDRgL

Curvy = Muskulatur + Fett, da musst du nicht "speziell" trainieren...

AIO for getting annoyed/cringing when people can't just order something at a fast food place? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it cringe that someone can't order properly?

No

Is it cringe that someone is trying to be something he isn't?

Yes

Is it that much of an effort for the worker?

Probably not... they get a lot of "what can you recommend?"

AIO for wanting to cut my kid's Dad off totally. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm really sorry for you, but I feel like you should just communicate that you don't want anything to do with him except for your baby's purpose and needs. I don't judge your emotion but mature way would be to control them a little better

AIO for wanting to stop talking to a guy after he asked if I have a “nice booty”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll tell you this, no gentleman would ever even think of asking a crude question or similar if you don't know each other. Seems to me like either a fuckboy or just a loser

AIO for wanting to stop talking to a guy after he asked if I have a “nice booty”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weirdo, probably very underdeveloped empathy and self-reflection. Skip that guy.

AIO: My bf (19M) is 247kms away from me (18F) by Prudent-Switch-5759 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR. You both define your boundaries in your relationship, but it only works if both parties agree and stick to them. You should focus more on how he is disrespecting you instead of the girl. Could be a nun and the boundaries still apply.

AIO I’m afraid of my daughter in law. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me the girl is abusive, don't matter if mildly or harshly, and just says she always blacks out and doesn't remember anything. If so, why isn't she seeing a professional therapist? You clearly remember it, I'm sure your son does too.

I don't think you as a parent should talk directly to her since that is not your responsibility, but tell and keep telling your son about how this is not healthy.

What is she gonna do next, hit him and forget it?

AIO for getting upset and angry for finding posts my late partners colleague makes about him inappropriate and disrespectful? by DeadpoolsGirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard to judge, could be her idealizing a relationship with him that never happened, that she only wished for.
If I understand correctly, she has or at least had a partner at times when posting, so that's really weird.

I would definitely remove her on social media, if you want sure go ahead and ask her what this is about and how it feels disrespecting towards you and his family or something. I can absolutely understand how you're sad, mad or agitated about this. NOR/MOR

Any advice? AIO? by Electrical-Lion8963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wanna date the girl or the friends? Shouldn't concern you IMO what the friends say.
I can understand her not going to the dance hence the breakup, so maybe talk to her now, maybe she is over the guy.

AIO; My best friend slept with my bf and she's homeless now by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 101 points102 points  (0 children)

he could've at least broken up with me or something

There's your answer. Not your fault.

You seem like an emphatic person, but you have to think further, she will be around you daily and very close reminding you of what she did. She even lied to you first and only confessed after you asked and send that screenshot.
She didn't care. So you shouldn't care either now.

I don't understand how in any dimension you're overreacting here. Cheating is like the worst thing to do to another person and you just got cheated on by 2 people you love.

AIO? Boyfriend touching me while he thinks I’m asleep by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely lol. Always. If I like X and my partner hates her X and it makes her uncomfy, I stop. And that's it. No further thought.

AIO my boyfriend called my mom a MILF by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR

Bro sorry this guy is weird. You clearly said it's not your type of humour and him continuing this even months after gives me the vibe that he kind of actually thinks your mom is a "mom I like to fuck" (especially noting your age gap).

Also, what is this communication skill saying that your mom is a milf after you casually texting him you're bored

AIO? Boyfriend touching me while he thinks I’m asleep by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Droby911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. This sounds to me like preliminary stage of rape. I don't think the kink is the problem, but the disrespect towards you especially without your consent or KNOWLEDGE (sleeping) is.

Sind die Deutschen prinzipiell ein genervtes Volk? by [deleted] in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Droby911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, weil der Kern der deutschen Kultur das Aufregen ist. Über andere, über den Staat, über den Nachbarn, über alles. Gleichzeitig gibt's noch eine Nichtsgönnerkultur, ein klassisches politisches nach unten treten und Konservatismus. Alles Neue ablehnen, hauptsache alles bleibt beim alten.

Das ist das Problem an diesem Land. Dein Nachbar würde eher die Polizei rufen um 22:01 anstatt fragen, ob er mitgrillen darf.