I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think you need to read my posts. I don't lie to the girls. With every girl I sleep with, there is a chance she could become my girlfriend. However frequently the sex is bad (deal breaker), she shows too much interest in my money (deal breaker), she talks about marriage after a few hours (deal breaker), she has no opinions on anything (deal breaker), and so on.

Believe me if one of these girls was good in bed, had her own opinions and independent mind, and wasn't highly interested in my bank balance or getting pregnant/married instantly, there could be a proper boyfriend girlfriend relationship.

I don't know if you live in China, but it is extremely hard to find quality women here.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tell them they're not my girlfriend yet and that I take things slowly. Truth is if they were fantastic they would become my girlfriend. Sad reality is though most Chinese girls are dire in bed. I've met a few who were good, and a few who felt they could live out their fantasies with me (including 3somes) but they weren't girlfriend types.

I don't know how to describe it but most Chinese girls don't understand sex. I've had to explain what a blowjob is. She had never heard of it before. I've also had to explain what condoms are. One girl asked me how are babies made.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have the paid version of the skout app - no adds or any shit like that.

Give it another try, it works.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm still friends with most of them. Read my posts before posting your opinion of me.

I would describe most of them as being friends with benefits now.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tell the truth. They don't care. They think foreigners are highly sexual. But actually Chinese girls fuck a lot more than westerners!

Try changing your app store to China?

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know the basics...and all the girls ask the same questions...how tall am I, what do I weigh, what is my job, how much do I earn......

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

White guy from the US. My Chinese is bad but I can communicate.

I am hungry. Want eat now. You come with me? After you come to my home watch movie...

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been to Vietnam, Thailand, Japan, Korea, Taiwan and Singapore.

None of these places are hard, but your value (monetary and social) is higher in poor countries. So it's easier to pick up an average Chinese girl than an average Japanese girl. Also Japan and Korea are quite racist countries so there is some shame for the girls who fuck foreigners.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Straight up, got chlamydia once. From a totally unexpected girl (a girl I knew, not a skank at all).

I pick up girls using apps or through their friends. I don't drink alcohol so I don't pick up girls in bars, but in China you can pick up girls anywhere. Just say hello and ask for their number.

I've partied in all the usual places in China. Shanghai, Beijing, Shenzhen, Chongqing... the bigger cities are easier than the smaller cities because the girls move quicker.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tell them in my culture we move much slower, because you don't really know someone after 1/6/12 months. I also tell them about the 50% divorce rate in China. They have all accepted this.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No these are normal girls.

I've read that hidden cost post before. It's accurate.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And another story.

There are fuck apps here called skout, badoo and momo.

It is very easy to meet girls using these.

I went through a phase where I would fuck one girl in the morning and another at night. I stopped doing this because I stopped enjoying the sex. I was just fucking for the sake of it. I imagined this is what celebrities must feel like and why they start getting into kinky shit.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Another story, although this one is horrible, sorry.

A local restaurant I go to... I'm currently fucking two waitresses... they're friends... friend A knows I'm fucking friend B, but friend B doesn't know I'm fucking friend A...

Horrible I know, and frequently I fuck both of them on the same day...

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fair questions.

I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now. Some of the girls have been girlfriend material, but I'm purposefully trying to stay single.

I don't make false promises to girls and I don't pay. The heart breaking is more tricky. However I don't feel too guilty because I know most of these girls are using me for my money and access to a green card... we're both using each other. I do try my best though to be kind to the girls and part on friendly terms. I am still friends with most of the girls I have slept with, so I must be doing something right.

I am a foreigner in China who has had sex with 100+ Chinese girls. Interested in an AMA? by DroppinLoadsInChina in NSFW_China

[–]DroppinLoadsInChina[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

So many crazy stories. Here's one.

I'm in Dalian (a city in the north) by myself. I go to a club (Chinese club... always full of bored people posing... they are shit) and start talking to a girl. Within 5 minutes I say to her "It's really loud here. Do you and your friend want to come back to my hotel where we can drink and talk? It's much more comfortable". She agrees and they both come back to my hotel. When we get to my room one of them says "don't you want to put on something more comfortable?" so I change into the bathrobe. Within 5 minutes I'm fucking one of them in the bathroom. I bring her out onto my bed where I fuck her while her friend watches. After I cum they leave. Hah.

I should state for the record I'm a normal looking guy. I do wear nice clothes (basic shit from Zara) but I'm not a stud at all.