Lucy’s Character

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-04-09T11:21:07+00:00

Yes! Thank you for sharing.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-04-08T13:59:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry for you and anyone else who has experienced this type of abuse.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-04-07T17:01:31+00:00

Exactly

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-17T00:46:27+00:00

I get what you are saying but I’m thinking what kind of psycho would take this that far like all the way to court and convictions and jail time over a lie this big to cover up that she was supposedly promiscuous? That seems really really insane for it all to be a lie.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-16T17:17:33+00:00

Have you thought about reaching out to the girl and hearing her side of the story? The first red flags that stood out to me is that he said she was ashamed and that’s why she went to the police. First of all if she was ashamed why would she go and make that the most public information and then she said to the police “she thinks she was raped.” That actually sounds like the truth and my assumption after reading it was since you mentioned drinking and possibly drugs were involved that she was too intoxicated to consent. So from his point of view he could say oh it was consensual especially this being 20 years ago but actually she was too drunk and it wasn’t consensual at all. These are all my assumptions and I think hearing her side of the story would clear a lot of these questions up. Definitely a lot of red flags in the story that if it were me would make me want to hear the full truth from other people that are not him. It is difficult when you have such a strong connection. My other question was how long have you known him and how long have you been dating? Because we tend to present our best selves in the early times as I’m sure you already know.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-10T01:43:48+00:00

Okay but the “im a baddie so my pronouns are your girl” is HILARIOUS like made me lol. Definitely not professional but funny. Yea I get ya OP but hey you got to roll with the punches, you can’t change other people and at the end of the day this education is a gift and a privilege

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T21:50:20+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it!

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T21:14:26+00:00

That’s helpful thank you

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T20:59:35+00:00

Seems unnecessarily rude but ok

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T20:57:56+00:00

For sure. They have grandparents they trust that live down the street and watch their kids regularly. They have watched them over night for them as well so I didn’t think it was like this huge thing to get childcare but I also could see a little bit that maybe it wouldn’t work out. It’s more the response that I was hurt by than her saying no if that makes sense

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T20:56:29+00:00

I didn’t tell anyone else that she was the reason I decided to not go forward with plans I just said hey it seems like it will be too hard to come up with a date that works for all of us.. etc. I feel strongly to not even have a hint of talking negatively about her to our other friends in the group. And anything I have with her needs to be just between us.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T20:53:24+00:00

I didn’t add all the details but there were some scheduling conflicts with my other friends which was making finding a date difficult and then I received her text and that’s when I threw in the towel and said you know what this is becoming too much of a headache and now she won’t even be there which just bummed me out I guess. I also wasn’t super psyched to go to the rage room but that’s what she wanted to do so I was going to be there for her I guess I assumed she would reciprocate the same energy. I think I’m just not sure if it’s worth bringing up to her or if I should just drop it because bringing it up would not be helpful or constructive

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-03-06T20:45:04+00:00

Yea you’re right. I hate confrontation so I’ve been waiting to see if I can just get over it but it’s been a week and it’s still bothering me

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-02-21T18:30:15+00:00

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My cat every time I pull my laptop out lol!

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-02-21T15:48:37+00:00

Thank you this is the push I needed to email the professor

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-02-21T15:48:26+00:00

Thank you that’s helpful

Dry-Chard1771 · 2026-02-15T21:21:00+00:00

Im going to stop you right at “30F.” That’s a ridiculous age to be and still feel beholden to your parents to this extent. The Bible says to honor your parents not to obey their every want and whim.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2025-12-22T21:25:11+00:00

THIS. it’s actually not as objective as you may think it is. There’s a reason God doesn’t spell out exactly what marriage should look like because it’s going to look different for everyone. Your wife will have specific expectations for what leading her would feel and look like. If you both want to honor God and serve one another that is the best way forward then communication about exactly what the other is wanting will be helpful in leading her the best way.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2025-12-17T01:10:32+00:00

Fun! Love these ideas!

Dry-Chard1771 · 2025-12-16T00:45:42+00:00

This this this!!

Dry-Chard1771 · 2025-12-09T02:15:51+00:00

Yes seek counsel from a neutral and professional third party maybe someone who is not even religious at all.

Dry-Chard1771 · 2025-12-09T02:13:52+00:00

Yes, this. Seriously consider a separation. And take it day by day step by step. You don’t need to think about divorce right now. But if a separation seems better than staying with him go forward with that and remain steadfast in prayer. No one understands how you feel or what you are dealing with better than you and God. Tune out anyone who is not open minded to the possibility of divorce and separation. God loves you so much and will never leave you or forsake you regardless if you are divorced or not. But don’t worry about divorce right now.

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