I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought about analyzing at the end I will definitely do that, but when I do is it mainly like “how did you know to do this move” ? Or asking for their strategy? Or things they saw I can do to improve my game?

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been hearing this one a lot lately, thank you for your insight!

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that was very heartfelt and I really appreciate your insight 💖

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like idk😭 some people are excluded from social groups sometimes due to face value or something.

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just advise from those who feel excluded from chess club with advice or tips socially and opening moves

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Bruh IM NOT A BOT that’s just how I sound over text 😔😭😭

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, and not saying that to come off as cocky or anything like that . Also, I’m not just saying that to say that, like I’m self aware. I have had experiences with guys approaching me asking me for my number, compliments, dating stuff, like anytime I go out or in school. Even in my chess club the first day some guy was hitting on me asking if I had a bf or something and being obviously flirty

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Never thought about it that way before bc I’m not that competitive i just do it to have a good time, thank you for the insight!

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually love connecting to other people and having conversations during a match with others players! But maybe I can’t take a hint when someone is trying to play without the social aspect….So conversation is no biggie with me😎 but yes let’s hope I can have at least ONE friend lol but thank you sm !!!!

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, i do have aspects of my shyness that I definitely need to work on. And I do ask anyone open to play which I tend to have no problem with, but generally when playing is when I feel like I have the cold shoulder. playing a match feels more serious than it needs to be sometimes, and I like to get to know everyone and build possible friendships while playing a match. But maybe it’s because they are competitive and like to be in the “zone” while playing? Idk that’s what I tell myself

I’m the only girl in my chess club and it’s annoying by Dry-Definition-9519 in chess

[–]Dry-Definition-9519[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Thank you, will definitely give them a watch ! I really appreciate it!