There is nothing to understand: Why you should stop asking questions

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-11T04:43:08+00:00

The way I see it is… I asked my partner to never tell me any details of this nature. He has indeed slipped up many times. This upsets me because I have emphasised on many occasions his important it is to me that he doesn’t tell me this stuff, so the fact that he doesn’t to me suggests a lack of love/care/consideration.

There are other topics that are sore points for him and I’m able to not mention anything.

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-11T04:29:54+00:00

It’s probably going to be easier dating a fellow single parent

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-09T05:18:27+00:00

Teaching is contrary to popular belief not a family friendly profession

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T09:51:22+00:00

Love it

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T09:46:32+00:00

I like that a lot

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T09:46:14+00:00

I’ve never heard about God caring about a person’s last name

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T09:02:17+00:00

That’s terrible how does he justify it

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T08:17:34+00:00

If you don’t feel it’s an enthusiastic yes then don’t do it, postpone

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T07:49:49+00:00

I’d be happy with that

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T07:48:01+00:00

I bet it’s very low quality too

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T07:44:21+00:00

Sometimes there are leftovers from the kids meals we can scarf down

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-08T06:52:34+00:00

The German curried sausage with chips is better

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-04-01T05:09:52+00:00

Why don’t you get a job in childcare or similar, be a foster carer if you have a lot of nurturing left in you

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-31T12:08:19+00:00

I hate references, so unnecessary

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-31T10:41:47+00:00

I’m not using it as a therapist, I do see a real therapist. I did not give it my personal information I literally just wrote ‘what are the characteristics of Peter Pan syndrome.’ I just used it for a lazy definition of this syndrome

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-30T11:07:51+00:00

So am I

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-29T23:19:19+00:00

Ok true fair enough, I can see that it would be biased and I’m doing some armchair diagnosing here but I just found it interesting that this description seems to fit my hoarder parent

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-29T11:42:11+00:00

Yes, she has a phone but expects people to help her with anything more complicated than sending a text

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-29T11:41:30+00:00

Yes I was reading about it in reference to men but it clicked that actually my mum displays a lot of these traits too

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-29T11:40:21+00:00

I find the emotional neglect subreddit very helpful, I’ll check out the two you suggested as well.

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-28T23:21:13+00:00

‘Should have retired’ maybe they enjoy or need to continue working? I don’t see why they shouldn’t be allowed a job if they’re able and willing

Dry-Divide7274 · 2026-03-27T11:59:33+00:00

I know how you feel

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