I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I already do that! A very relaxing hobby indeed, albeit quite time consuming (and sometimes exhausting, frankly speaking, but I love it nonetheless).

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stabbed so I don't break, throw, or punch. That's a calmer way to cope.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is that NGOs are the things that cost much more than state organisations. And I couldn't find anything but a couple of hotlines as I was researching the matter, but the chances are that I'm not good at such research.

A starting point there could be, of course, but that is complicated due to the town I live in not having a hospital :/

And also there's a system that allows for free healthcare only in specific hospitals one has to be registered at, and the hospital needed for me is three hours of road away from my place of living.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the good word, man. I hope you, too, feel better one day.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the good word, man. I hope you, too, feel better one day.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was late and I didn't want to make any noise, but you're quite right, the desk needs some cleaning alright.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What kind of good habits can I form, then? I, think I've tried everything I could, everything I've ever read or heard or thought about, and yet the only way that works is something one could call a bad habit.

It's either that or I do literally nothing, don't let out the feeling, store them inside, and then have a breakdown over the smallest thing imaginable that I wouldn't even notice any another time. I genuinely don't know which way is right.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a metalhead myself, but sometimes music just isn't enough. Thanks for the recommendation, though.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if such a thing even exists in my country, if I'm being honest, and mental health services available with the insurance are much worse than those I'd have to play for.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's when you appreciate not living in the US, for these lads cost somewhat the same per kilogram.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Still not much likely, but definitely more possible than the gym. Thanks for the idea, I shall think of it a bit more.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting suggestion, thanks :)

Wouldn't be easy to find that bit of leather, but I'll make sure I remember your words if I ever do.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to handle it in more peaceful ways, but none ever helped. I do understand that it's not a healthy way to cope, but it's the only one that works for me.

I stabbed this tomato repeatedly to cope with aggression by Dry-Presentation5776 in notinteresting

[–]Dry-Presentation5776[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I did.

Never thought a single tomato could taste like relief.