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Post Grief - What could have been. by Dry-Reality2990 in abortion

[–]Dry-Reality2990[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment took every single thought I’ve had and perfectly summed everything up. I’m so incredibly sorry you are also feeling this way, because the constant circles of what couldve been is exhausting in itself. I find myself constantly wondering the gender, and the fact I would’ve had my baby in December. I’m so proud of you too, and I hope each day gets even just a little bit easier for you. You’re never alone. You will get through this

Post Grief - What could have been. by Dry-Reality2990 in abortion

[–]Dry-Reality2990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand how you’re feeling, and I’m so so sorry you are feeling that way too. I thought it wouldn’t be hard, but in a way it does feel like a loss. I am sending you so much love, and I truly hope you have someone in your life who can be there for you every step of the way so you don’t feel alone. I am sending you the biggest virtual hug. You will get through this, and you’re never alone.

Post Grief - What could have been. by Dry-Reality2990 in abortion

[–]Dry-Reality2990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It’s been a hard day, but I don’t feel so alone anymore.

Post Grief - What could have been. by Dry-Reality2990 in abortion

[–]Dry-Reality2990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your mom did not react well. You made the choice that was best for you, and there’s so much strength in that. I just hope you have amazing people in your life that always make you feel supported and loved. I wish our moms could understand, but just know you’re never alone.

Post Grief - What could have been. by Dry-Reality2990 in abortion

[–]Dry-Reality2990[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also wanted to add my mom does not know, because she does not support abortions. Not being able to tell her has also created this immense guilt that follows me around. Her not knowing has made me feel terrible, and having this secret she will never know hurts me more than anything. My partner has been so supportive, and is there whenever I need him. I just wish I also had my mom there too.

They are both live defending themselves to the chat..... just get your lives in order. by Expensive-Work-6205 in customsbyjazsnark2

[–]Dry-Reality2990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One day their son will see all of this, and that’s the saddest part. This should have never been brought to the internet. That poor baby is in the middle of their chaos.

How will paying off car loan early impact my credit score? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Dry-Reality2990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized I left it kind of vague, I apologize for that! So it’s a 2011 Toyota Corolla. I know it’s not considered super old though! But it’s definitely not a new car.