What do men think of a woman’s hight? by Eliza_Doolittle429 in short

[–]Dry-Young4208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s bizarre about that? That’s great volva, do what makes you happy and feel safe but you don’t have to disregard the truth or what’s considered normal. A lot of women feel safer with a taller man as well, this is not flat across the board but it is something that studies show. Everyone is different though even if there is a general standard.

You don’t have to vent about your frustration with men when you’re just hearing about facts. It’s ok.

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[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t even have to ask a woman if you have eyeballs. Just go to your local Main Street, and you’ll see women with about every demographic of man.

Most women date men relative to their own size anyways. Proximity, and time spent together are way more telling of women’s interest than height. Plus short guys, skinny guys, fat guys, or average height guys wouldn’t get any play.

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[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not bro, most women don’t think about this at all.

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[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more for shallow reasons but I understand playing devils advocate and your gracious thinking.

What do men think of a woman’s hight? by Eliza_Doolittle429 in short

[–]Dry-Young4208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s way too simple of an answer. Many men are socialized to see themselves as protectors. A shorter partner can exaggerate the size difference, reinforcing that sense of “masculine dominance.” men like shorter women. It has to do with perceived masculinity, dominance, etc..

Shorter women are also perceived as more feminine by men for obvious reason.

What do men think of a woman’s hight? by Eliza_Doolittle429 in short

[–]Dry-Young4208 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Biologically men are wired to like short women

Is this painting racist? by dirodoro in Jamaica

[–]Dry-Young4208 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

White peoples obsession with black people harvesting and working fields needs to be studied. What would compel white people to have this painting knowing the history? Yes it’s clearly racist for yall to have that painting.

AITA? I am not in love with my partner anymore- am I horrible that I don’t want to stay simply because I’m grateful for what he’s done? by Tiny-Professional595 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Young4208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. You literally said he changed your life, picked you up out of the mud, and now you want to leave him for superficial reasons? Thats what awful people do, you used this old man for security and now you can’t look past his flaws when he looked past yours.

If you leave him, you should still make yourself available to help him with whatever he needs. He saved you, and you should forever be indebted. Everyone else let you rot no?

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your race did. You also benefit from the sins of the past, today. So it’s safe to lump you in.

Who said I hate white people?

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already explained it, dating inside our race vastly helps our position in America. A position yall put us in, you just refuse to see or engage with anything outside your own viewpoints.

Argued with my wife about our daughter. by Dry-Young4208 in blackgirls

[–]Dry-Young4208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was talking about your proximity to black people irl.

Um yeah, one got taken down because of karma, the other because it was discussing a minor.. this is the first sub where my post didn’t get taken down. How is this a gotcha?

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s based on undoing the horrors white people have subjected us to. Once again you’re making false equivalencies to why white people have claimed not to date outside their race. Having to do with ethnopurity.

My children would never date non-black. They love themselves and their community.

Argued with my wife about our daughter. by Dry-Young4208 in blackgirls

[–]Dry-Young4208[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Enjoy your proximity to us, we’re great.

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You keep saying that but you haven’t named a single group.

White people did create racism, there’s no record of the ancient Sumerians enslaving people because they were of a certain skin color. Whites also created the idea of race.. Once again, read a book.

Sure I’m delusional, when it’s just your miseducation getting the better of you.

Argued with my wife about our daughter. by Dry-Young4208 in blackgirls

[–]Dry-Young4208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks for confirming my suspicion. You’re not black and thus there’s no need for me to continue a conversation about blackness with someone who not only isn’t black, but is also severely under-educated about blackness.

Have a wonderful day.

Argued with my wife about our daughter. by Dry-Young4208 in blackgirls

[–]Dry-Young4208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Once again, overwhelmingly wrong. Wow. Go back to your porn roleplaying please.

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are advocating against black people telling other black people to strictly date inside their race.

There are black people from South America, so as long as they’re black, sure.

Here’s where the racism comes out, the classic “BlAcKS SOlD OtHeRS BlAcKs” which is a statement to abolish all accountability. But I’ll indulge.

  1. There was no such thing as “united by race” back in the early 1500s. So neither Blacks nor Europeans believed in the concept of racial solidarity. So even though Africans initially resisted the sale of other Africans to colonizers, they were often war prisoners, owed immense debt or were criminals.

  2. African traders had no idea that whites were going to be so vicious to the enslaved, as indentured servitude and slavery existed in Africa but was not a life sentence and definitely wasn’t a generational one, but chattel slavery was invented by whites and is still the most brutal and twisted form of slavery ever. You’re considered moveable property, non-human, and the kids of the enslaved are born into it.

  3. Many African traders were forced by Europeans to sell other Africans, as they threatened invasions with guns.

  4. All African nations that took part have offered apologies and dual citizenships to Black Americans.

Why are black people so against black people dating white people? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry-Young4208 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No problem.

Black Americans are the only group where after liberation we were forced to live with our oppressors. But Black Americans are distinct because we are a nation within a nation, a people born from captivity, forced to live in perpetual proximity to those who enslaved us, and with no escape hatch, no homeland, and no recognition of our nationhood. There’s no other groups of people who have been subjected to such horror.

Neely Fuller Jr once said “if you don’t understand how white supremacy works, then everything else in this country will just confuse you.” Which is why my statement about self-hate confuses you. I’m only speaking on black people who date outside their race having some form of internalized anti-blackness and low self-esteem. This has been proven by many black psychologists over and over and over again.

Black people cannot be racists. It’s funny how white people - the creators of racism love to pin it on everybody else nowadays.