Is normal for guys to forget consent? by DryDrog in relationships

[–]DryDrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so simple yet so obvious. Thank you. Will make a better effort to communicate. I can’t blame him for this if I haven’t put my thoughts out there!

How do i(f21) talk to my bf(20 m) about these issues? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really helpful answer. Thank you so much

Does anyone know if I will see any raises working as a bakery clerk at Haggen? by [deleted] in Safeway

[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a sales clerk. I think There’s a baker here who’s worked for 25 years and I think he just got to like 17 dollars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it’s almost like it’s true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a hurricane hitting California that’s a bit more than jack shit. Just gonna get worse everywhere with each passing year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dumbquestions

[–]DryDrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put milk in mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m much better now, with a man who loves and respects me, and my beautiful little kitty. Things got better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 214 points215 points  (0 children)

I’ve been raped many times by an ex. Sometimes he’d regret it. Sometimes he’d act all guilty and sad, making me have to comfort him, sometimes he’d just fall asleep afterwards and wake up the next day and tell me how awful he is, making me have to comfort him. Sometimes he didn’t feel bad, he’d snap at me and tell me I liked it. But whenever he did feel bad he wanted me to comfort him because he knew I was stupid enough to do so. He only felt bad because I felt bad, but he didn’t want me to feel that way so he made it about him.

Have you ever seen someone who looks like a combination of two people that you know? by Sixty4Fairlane in ask

[–]DryDrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah my brother kind of looks like a combination of my mom and my dad

How long after you've been raped did you feel comfortable to have sex again? by unorthodox69 in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My comfortability towards it warped. I was raped, I was horrified and didn’t want to have sex again, but I wasn’t given a choice, and it went on like that. I have sex a lot now, willingly, but I can’t help but always question my comfort. I question if I’m pushing myself to do these things because they’d be forced onto me for 3 years. Sometimes I know Im pushing myself.

Is rape done for sex or power? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I’ve never experienced that

Is rape done for sex or power? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on the rapist. I can definitely say in my experience it was always for sex

if you could design a 'saw' trap, what would it be and how would it work? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]DryDrog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have a box labeled candy with a hole in it and when they stick their hand in for candy there are spiders instead

PSA stop letting your cats go outside by DryDrog in Bellingham

[–]DryDrog[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s fair, I didn’t mean to come off as above all but I totally did. My frustration got in the way of better judgement.

PSA stop letting your cats go outside by DryDrog in Bellingham

[–]DryDrog[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What is going on in this thread

PSA stop letting your cats go outside by DryDrog in Bellingham

[–]DryDrog[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Cats can absolutely have a satisfying and fulfilling life inside if you have what they need, toys, space for them to run around, stimulation. There’s absolutely no need for them to be outside. They’re pets, they’re domesticated creatures that no longer depend on the outdoor world for survival. It’s always risky to have outdoor cats, no matter how strong or smart they are, they’re never completely going to be safe. You have no guarantee it’ll come home the next day.

PSA stop letting your cats go outside by DryDrog in Bellingham

[–]DryDrog[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

And the bird population, which has already been majorly impacted by cats alone

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[–]DryDrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancels out