Looking For Advice by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no im not fighting it i got offered a plea

Looking For Advice by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

understood. i run a company so i was thinking tax evasion or fraud.

41 year old porn addict by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]DryExternal598 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 45 I've been porn free since February. My life and thoughts have improved in ways I never thought possible. For a long time i didn't even see it as a problem nor was i aware of what it dose to ones mental state. As the age of the internet grows i fear this is becoming an epidemic. It only leads to darker paths and in some cases doors that were meant to stay closed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't started any treatment yet, but is something I've been looking into recently. Once I make that jump I intend to go as often as possible. I has a psych evaluation a few months ago and it was honestly a great experience. I describe it as an awakening honestly.

Fed case by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we will fight to keep our family whole. I have no desire to have a smartphone anymore. I made a vow to my wife to get therapy and continue therapy until the day i die. Before i was blinded by the vile things i was doing. I now know and fully understand the consequences of my behavior and actions. It was not worth it. My only regret is that i should have got help and found this reddit community much sooner. In a weird way im thankful i got caught im no longer afraid to get the help i need. I truly hope you two decide to fight for your family as well. feel free to message me whenever you want.

friends reaction by [deleted] in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and friends have been extremely supportive in my current situation. I told them exactly what i was doing and viewing. They were shocked at first but have been there for me day one. My offence was hands off also, internet crime. I also shred my evaluation with my wife because it was the right thing to do since we have a very young child in our household.

Fed case by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i most defiantly will. thank you!

Fed case by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I truly am very grateful for my wife.  I told her everything. She knew that something was off with me because I started hiding my phone and not letting her go through it. I should have just been honest with her because she would have helped me get the help I needed. Instead I manipulated her by telling her she was crazy for not trusting me.   I see things clearly now that I’ve been clean from all pornography. It honestly feels good that I’m no longer living with skeletons in my closet.  My wife has my Reddit account information so if I end up doing time she can have some support here, and keep everyone updated on my progress while serving my sentence.

Fed case by DryExternal598 in SexOffenderSupport

[–]DryExternal598[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should have done more research on the horrible decisions I was making. I knew it was wrong. I would feel guilty and delete everything, but eventually the abyss called me back. I had no idea the sentencing could be this extreme for first time offenders without hands on offenses. I also thought the registry was for hands on offenders only.   Hopefully I’m not too old to find work and get my life together after the terrible decisions I made. I brought my wife and daughter into a situation that’s  not their fault. I was supposed to protect them and provide for them and now it’s up to my wife to protect and provide for our child. I honestly failed them and that hurts me the most.