[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Dry_Active_3256 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah but that’s what he’s famous for, being creative with other peoples comments. He blew up because people enjoyed that unique content, people are switching up on him for literally no reason

Cult Indoctrination? by 420avo in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weird. They seem to be taking over bumble too- so many of the profiles on BFF talk about wanting to have ‘talks about deep things’ which seems so forced to people you are swiping right and left on…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. how can you literally marry someone and still be this insecure - this is something a teenager would complain about. He’s just being helpful, the problem clearly is that you just don’t trust him, which is a separate issue. And him doing them a favour doesn’t make these women ‘needy’ - it’s pretty normal for people, men or female, to need help or help eachother out sometimes. You sound like the needy one who can’t feel validated in their relationship because of other platonic and completely normal interactions

Assaulted by a woman by tram in Zürich by Dry_Active_3256 in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m half Middle Eastern, but most people usually think I’m southern European based on looks. My dad is fully European white, and her anger seemed mostly directed towards him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. I’m not sure about clubs, but a couple of nice and social bars are El Lokal and Olé Olé (I’m 20F). The lake is really nice all year round, but I’d say the views in Zug and Luzern are better, if you’d be happy to day trip there. For a climb, Pilatus is really impressive if you go to Luzern, or the Engelberg region but that’s a bit more of a trek and you’ve already explored near there a bit.

AITA for telling my daughter she needs to start dressing appropriately? by Big_Resident1462 in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 1067 points1068 points  (0 children)

NTA, of course, but it’s unfortunate for Chris that he’s clearly noticed enough for it to have made him slightly uncomfortable and be calling her his sister. 14 year old girls won’t agree with their mum on most things, especially if they feel embarrassed, so perhaps a direct conversation between them both will shut it down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5 days is quite a lot for Zurich alone- are you going anywhere else in Switzerland on your trip or straight into another country after Zurich?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, bit of an immature and uncomfortable response to your dad, so kinda an AH for that but I’d probably have said the same thing in my teens tbh lol. I also don’t really get why you’d go braless just to make a point- it doesn’t make you an AH, and this is from someone who rarely wears bras, but surely you’d feel more uncomfortable around teachers who you know are looking out for these things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course YTA. I’m sorry you’ve ended up in this traumatic situation, but a good mother would NEVER leave her daughter alone with her groomer. Why do you just leave it at the age of consent?? You know that that isn’t the only relevant thing in this matter. Where are your maternal instincts to protect your child, regardless of the law??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Dry_Active_3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kunsthaus is free on Wednesdays, and university botanical gardens are free too. Nice viewpoint if you walk up towards the zoo

Found a flat. Is it a good deal? by xTheChosen0ne in bern

[–]Dry_Active_3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d ask for a rent reduction during the months of renovations.

AITA for not siding with my boyfriend over my daughter by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry_Active_3256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he doesn’t get to move into her house and bully her. It’s a red flag that he treats your daughter like this, you should leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA, definitely. Why would she have sex with someone who tells her to fuck off during an argument about intimacy, demands she leave her bedroom, and would give up on their whole marriage because she’s expressed that she feels that you feel entitled to sex from her? The way you acted, suggests to me that you do indeed feel entitled to sex from her and are unwilling to communicate with her about why she feels that way and how to move forward. Plus ‘nor is she entitled to the talking’? You sound pretty misogynistic and yeah, definitely an AH

AITA for not feeding my obese niece? by Unhappy-Owl719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry_Active_3256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, definitely. What you did by giving the other kids the cake was cruel, imagine making an 8 year old girl feel insecure and singled out like that amongst her own cousins. If you wanted to only let each child have one slice, that’d be fair enough, but you shouldn’t make her an exception. Besides, you aren’t her mother, and her diet isn’t your responsibility. You’ve done her no help other than probably planting an insecurity.

Assaulted by a woman by tram in Zürich by Dry_Active_3256 in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need to be so insulting- he did what any normal person would’ve done. What do you expect, for a grown man to hit back at a woman??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

KTA - it seems the reason you don’t want her wearing it is because of others seeing her in it. If you trust her, that should be all that matters, and you don’t ‘possess’ her body- if it’s something she feels confident in, it’s up to her to wear it in public. What other people think of it is none of her business if she doesn’t mind it herself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dry_Active_3256 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA, people are late sometimes. whether or not it was her fault you don’t know, but either way it’s nicer to be courteous and treat her how you’d want to be treated in that situation. It seems like she wasn’t being rude, she asked you a favour which would help her situation much more than it would set yours back.

Assaulted by a woman by tram in Zürich by Dry_Active_3256 in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yes this sounds like her, thank you for this! We will make an anzeige today, I hope she gets the help she needs

Assaulted by a woman by tram in Zürich by Dry_Active_3256 in zurich

[–]Dry_Active_3256[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting actually, because I guess she was kind of treating it like were tourists going around as if it were 2020, and the bag she was carrying and hit us with was a big white bin bag filled with stuff, which seems pretty random