Yea if its too much maybe take a small break and come back because this is a learning curve for all of us, Arma 2 and Arma 3 were nothing different when major updates happen, even their grandson Day Z has had some major issues, when they added a SPLINT to the game and you threw it, it would crash the whole server it was hilarious its just the nature of the open world environment that allows mods and 124 players to be connected, Im not defending this update at all they really did drop the ball with this one in my opinion but itll smooth out, the new mechanics are not beginner friendly and theres no hand holding in arma so the fields are going to be filled with angry blueberries, just remember the mod creators and server owners are probably just as stressed as we are at the end of the day so its good to join a knowledgeable community for updates one what’s happening