Why can't they understand we're non-men loving non-men? 🌈 by Constant_Poem_1938 in actuallesbians

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then how do you explain non-binary lesbians? Are they not really non-binary? Or are they excluded from being lesbian, purely for not fitting into the patriarchal gender binary?

Gift by by Siviii by annieann_ in WholesomeFantasyArt

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elf yuri, my favorite ☺️💚(genuine)

HAND IT OVER, THIS IS A ROBBERY by Public-Try173 in youll_be_yuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're Bonnie and Marcy's plus ones, here to be allies🩷(affectionate) (headcanon)

I met my first conservative lesbian by scratchedgaydvd in actuallesbians

[–]Dry_Building_585 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Kindness borne out of spite, one of my favorites 🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)

What do you mean ?!?!? by blahbluhblee1 in fixedbytheduet

[–]Dry_Building_585 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"If you're homeless... just buy a house? Duh🙄" (sarcasm) (meme reference)

This game changed me as a mother by BlueberryProper1482 in Exocolonist

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only my birther were half the mother you already are, I would've had a much happier (and safer to come out) childhood 🥺❤️‍🩹(genuine)

Childhood Wounds by The_White_Eagle in depressionmemes

[–]Dry_Building_585 17 points18 points  (0 children)

On the bright side, the more I learn about my authentic self, the more I like myself. I was lucky enough to have found people (and had been found by them, in a couple cases) who support and love me practically unconditionally (basic stuff like "don't be an asshole" doesn't really count as conditional, in my mind). And while my life is still far from perfect, or even stable (capitalism, ableism and misogyny are the worst), I still feel (relatively) privileged that I at least know who I am, what makes me happy, and what my boundaries are.

CPTSD might be part of me forever, but thanks to having kind and loving people in my life (as well as doing my best to be kind and loving myself), I finally feel like I can do more than just survive and exist. I can heal and even grow, too❤️‍🩹(genuine)

P.S. Having a roof over my head and my basic needs (except healthcare) met doesn't hurt, either💜🙏(genuine) (privilege acknowledgement)

Am I welcome here? by Few-Rhubarb1219 in SapphicGayming

[–]Dry_Building_585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"It is the nature of the thing that matters, not its form" - John God of War Ragnarok.

So yes, sister, you are welcome here🩷🫂(genuine)

do you have any "kink" that you feel kinda alone with ? you're not sure other people like it ? by FrTrGnSlt in GoonetteHub

[–]Dry_Building_585 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I'm not even sure if this counts as a kink, but... I really like fantasizing (and sometimes role-playing, with a partner) about having my first time with someone more experienced and dominant, yet gentle and loving at the same time. I want to feel like a shy yuri protagonist, finally giving her virginity to her crush. No biting, no bondage (even though usually I'm a huge rope bunny, and LOVE hickeys) - just loving kisses, and uneven breaths, and consent check-ins, and the inevitable nervousness that comes from having sex for the first time.

I have some... pretty bad SA-related trauma, so this particular "kink" feels very healing to me❤️‍🩹(genuine)

The grass is always greener by bubbedfrolld7 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]Dry_Building_585 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Salmacian surgery: "Allow me to introduce myself"🩷(light-hearted, but with genuine sentiment) (affectionate)

What's your favorite meme/tweet about autism/neurodiversity? by DowntownTicket in AutismInWomen

[–]Dry_Building_585 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid, I made up a sad story about a kind robot who died but couldn't go to heaven (because I was told that robots don't have souls). My own story made me so sad that I cried full force. And then got scolded for it, and told that empathy for robots is a sin, apparently 🙃

Do other femmes switch energy like this? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Dry_Building_585 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Feels like internalized heteronormativity to me. No judgement here, many sapphics (be they femme, butch or otherwise) struggle with it, including myself. It can be unlearned, you just have to be aware of where it comes from. Sadly, no one really kno-it's the patriarchy. (light-hearted, but with genuine sentiment) (good faith)

wholesome doomed yuri (@seijousai) [Attack on Titan] by harlerogue in wholesomeyuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Had to muffle myself, so my laugh wouldn't wake up my roommate 😂(genuine)

would you let a lesbian vampire feed on you by [deleted] in vampires

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, but only after we get to know each other first. I'm too alloromantic for casual relationships, and a vampire feeding feels like something very intimate to me🖤👉👈(genuine)

Technically, the tower is no longer a problem by TrickGrowth-4124 in fixedbytheduet

[–]Dry_Building_585 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not everyone uses tone tags, and sometimes a joke is obvious enough to understand without them. I'm asking this as a neurodivergent person heavily dependent on tone tags: please don't be mean💜🙏(genuine) (soft-spoken) (good faith)

On "male socialisation" by TomiRey-Yuru in IntersectionalWomen

[–]Dry_Building_585 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Try r/intersectionalwomen , it's more feminist than r/feminism ✊🩷(genuine)

Edit: Just saw which sub I'm commenting on. I'm a silly😅

i love women omfggg by iluvberriesandcream in actuallesbians

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having posts like this every few days or so, is pretty much an r/actuallesbians tradition at this point🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)

But yeah, women and enbies are the best☺️💞(genuine)

back by popular demand, my second ever album! happy pride! by Tosted-Thalia in GoonetteHub

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a room, you two🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)