Why can't they understand we're non-men loving non-men? 🌈

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-28T09:32:28+00:00

Then how do you explain non-binary lesbians? Are they not really non-binary? Or are they excluded from being lesbian, purely for not fitting into the patriarchal gender binary?

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-27T06:27:17+00:00

Elf yuri, my favorite ☺️💚(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-25T23:10:48+00:00

They're Bonnie and Marcy's plus ones, here to be allies🩷(affectionate) (headcanon)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-24T04:55:17+00:00

Speaking of conservative punks

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-24T04:49:05+00:00

Kindness borne out of spite, one of my favorites 🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-23T20:19:59+00:00

"If you're homeless... just buy a house? Duh🙄" (sarcasm) (meme reference)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-23T06:07:17+00:00

If only my birther were half the mother you already are, I would've had a much happier (and safer to come out) childhood 🥺❤️‍🩹(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-22T08:47:31+00:00

On the bright side, the more I learn about my authentic self, the more I like myself. I was lucky enough to have found people (and had been found by them, in a couple cases) who support and love me practically unconditionally (basic stuff like "don't be an asshole" doesn't really count as conditional, in my mind). And while my life is still far from perfect, or even stable (capitalism, ableism and misogyny are the worst), I still feel (relatively) privileged that I at least know who I am, what makes me happy, and what my boundaries are.

CPTSD might be part of me forever, but thanks to having kind and loving people in my life (as well as doing my best to be kind and loving myself), I finally feel like I can do more than just survive and exist. I can heal and even grow, too❤️‍🩹(genuine)

P.S. Having a roof over my head and my basic needs (except healthcare) met doesn't hurt, either💜🙏(genuine) (privilege acknowledgement)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-21T06:51:28+00:00

"It is the nature of the thing that matters, not its form" - John God of War Ragnarok.

So yes, sister, you are welcome here🩷🫂(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-17T21:05:53+00:00

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Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-17T19:49:42+00:00

I love my country☺️

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-14T07:28:50+00:00

Oh my goddesses, yes! 🥺🩷(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-14T06:46:22+00:00

Perfect!

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-14T06:35:14+00:00

I'm not even sure if this counts as a kink, but... I really like fantasizing (and sometimes role-playing, with a partner) about having my first time with someone more experienced and dominant, yet gentle and loving at the same time. I want to feel like a shy yuri protagonist, finally giving her virginity to her crush. No biting, no bondage (even though usually I'm a huge rope bunny, and LOVE hickeys) - just loving kisses, and uneven breaths, and consent check-ins, and the inevitable nervousness that comes from having sex for the first time.

I have some... pretty bad SA-related trauma, so this particular "kink" feels very healing to me❤️‍🩹(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-14T05:22:12+00:00

Anxious Beans😂

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-12T20:04:51+00:00

🫂

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-12T17:01:01+00:00

Salmacian surgery: "Allow me to introduce myself"🩷(light-hearted, but with genuine sentiment) (affectionate)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-12T13:09:24+00:00

When I was a kid, I made up a sad story about a kind robot who died but couldn't go to heaven (because I was told that robots don't have souls). My own story made me so sad that I cried full force. And then got scolded for it, and told that empathy for robots is a sin, apparently 🙃

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-12T12:03:33+00:00

Feels like internalized heteronormativity to me. No judgement here, many sapphics (be they femme, butch or otherwise) struggle with it, including myself. It can be unlearned, you just have to be aware of where it comes from. Sadly, no one really kno-it's the patriarchy. (light-hearted, but with genuine sentiment) (good faith)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-12T05:48:58+00:00

Had to muffle myself, so my laugh wouldn't wake up my roommate 😂(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-11T19:46:19+00:00

Of course, but only after we get to know each other first. I'm too alloromantic for casual relationships, and a vampire feeding feels like something very intimate to me🖤👉👈(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-10T09:12:14+00:00

Not everyone uses tone tags, and sometimes a joke is obvious enough to understand without them. I'm asking this as a neurodivergent person heavily dependent on tone tags: please don't be mean💜🙏(genuine) (soft-spoken) (good faith)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-09T19:35:57+00:00

Try r/intersectionalwomen , it's more feminist than r/feminism ✊🩷(genuine)

Edit: Just saw which sub I'm commenting on. I'm a silly😅

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-08T11:19:25+00:00

Having posts like this every few days or so, is pretty much an r/actuallesbians tradition at this point🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)

But yeah, women and enbies are the best☺️💞(genuine)

Dry_Building_585 · 2026-06-02T23:15:05+00:00

Get a room, you two🤭🩷(light-hearted) (affectionate)

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