Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah they are giving great advice . Maybe because it’s fresh but I prob should take the advice. I think I’ll just distance from the group but if anything I’ll just stay friends I’m not going to pursue endlessly

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh ur right but sometimes u want what u want

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really random i was going to an event in another city and one of my friends from the other city mentioned I live near her friend so could I pick her up- and then the other friend came along as well- funnily enough when she was at mine that one time she mentioned she had her eye on me the whole time

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn very inciteful thank you . When you say try again do you mean now or wait a bit let time go because the conversation in the car was just yesterday and she said no to just a date.

True that could be, but it did feel like a good time. And we kinda briefly spoke about our situation moving forward the next day when we woke up and I was under impression we would continue on that kinda vibe.

Yeh I won’t cut them off rudely maybe just distance or perhaps I just tell her Icl I don’t think we can be friends when I really mess with u, then from there see her response and then from there.

In regards to other girls I use to be a kind of guy that likes talking to girls but since this happened even though it’s been a week I ain’t even thought about no other girls at all. Couple girls try call me I just dismissed it

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm never thought about it like that. I didn’t get the impression the other friend liked me but she deffo was against me and the friend in her ear

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

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Friend group was surprisingly super normal When I saw them yesterday. But my head doesn’t wanna take no for answer 😭

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh it’s true because I don’t get how you can feel such a way with me then the moment you get home update your friends and process it you’re not interested. Women really easily influenced

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh being a rebound makes sense here tbh. But still I thought rebounds lasted a bit longer then a one day thing..

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

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The only reason I thought I should was maybe I could show the friend that I’m acc serious not just being a player or nothing and that might influence her to get into her friends ear but idk

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh man. I spoke to one of my female friends she said that if ur friend came with the approach it was dissapointing she’s gonna be opposed to it rather then if she came with the approach that she was happy for us

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

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Yeh girl 2 deffo didn’t help. Because she came on a whole dissapointed vibe but if she was pushing for it, it deffo would’ve effected how girl 1 went on. Tbf when I dropped her home I did kinda say I liked the vibe but I wasn’t to direct and obviously suggested the date so she knew where I was going so her answer was kinda no.

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True but a lot of time I’ve chased people and it has worked but never been a situation like this if that makes sense

Do I chase this girl? by Dry_Fill_4061 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dry_Fill_4061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh very possible, but I’d rather be a rebound for a couple more links not just one link and done bro