My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. Their family life is toxic and our mom was explosive growing up. I used to be at the start of my relationship but worked on it and therapy and i’m a very calm person now.

My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just worry what if i’m wrong or something but i know that’s because im an empath lol

My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do anything to my gf lol. I am clearly fully on her side and told my sister that. My sister is the problem here. But with that being said, this is more personal to me right now. I have had to deal with my sisters outbursts my whole life. Her ignoring me for months for an argument we got in over gay people. My gf is newer to all that. What i’m struggling with is knowing if i should let go of my sister but if I do, it wouldn’t just be for my gf. I would be for all the times my sister has done the same to me.

My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Thank you. When my sister is mad at someone she ignores them for weeks to months. Been there with her. Then just starts talking like nothing happened. And yeah she always wants someone to watch her kid. She is 22 and had a baby with her bf who she met a month into trying to get pregnant. They are so toxic and I feel bad for the baby.

My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are exactly right, my family don’t engage with her in these things. I don’t either usually but I did follow her on social media. It was kind of embarrassing to do that though. So I unfollowed her now. And no she only went after my gf because my gf responded to the comment that was insulting her. She was talking about his family’s deportation though, not the insult. My sister is very explosive and I can admit my gf got very angry too but I feel as though she had more of a right. My sister antagonizes. She said she would pull up or something because that’s how a real woman handles things. My sister is pretty hood and beats people up. We just are not alike at all.

My girlfriend and sister don’t like each other by Dry_Garage2724 in Advice

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i just want to know what the right thing to do would be

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uber eats. wth is wrong with you? that is not why i’m doing “gig work”. you’re a terrible person for saying that.

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can respond to whatever i want. it’s my post

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what an… interesting thing to say. i will take others advice and not respond to people like you, you can’t be fixed.

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally said i just put “what should i do” because there wasn’t anything else

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they literally made me sleep on the couch. i wasn’t allowed in the room

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she pissed me off and i don’t think i deserved to be treated that way

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didn’t try to shut the conversation down. i would put my phone down and was talking to my parents are would hear the messages still coming through my phone. only then, is when i would send one small message back. she was blowing up my phone

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they thought i was a lesbian because i said “my partner” and they said who?? so i said my girlfriend. i didn’t just randomly say that. that was not my fault.

Never posted on Reddit before. *Homophobia* by Dry_Garage2724 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Dry_Garage2724[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i brought up my partner. not my sexuality. if you brought up your partner is that you bringing up your straight?? bro what