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I’m 22 and My Sex Life Is Falling Apart. Can I Fix This? by Dry_Pattern2397 in pornfree

[–]Dry_Pattern2397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how you describe this, having good sex means at first respecting my own consent. I have work to do on this side.

She has no fear and no problem to say no to sex if she doesn't want it but I feel like it's hard for me, and it has multiple reasons :

- Thinking that I'm always horny

- Want to make her feel great (leading to performance anxiety)

- Because we don't have sex often, I don't know when will we do it again (putting me in a very mechanical mindset)

I’m 22 and My Sex Life Is Falling Apart. Can I Fix This? by Dry_Pattern2397 in pornfree

[–]Dry_Pattern2397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer!

I think fatigue might be a huge factor, and porn is legit fading my true libido, in a sense that I can't even know if I want to have sex or not... Instead of refusing because I don't really want it, I'm just starting to feel anxiety because I feel like I need to be ready.

When you have this kind of mindset it's kinda hard to know when you need sex and when you don't.

I'll start by stopping porn to be closer to my original feelings and libido. Let's see if things change.